Today CafeMom is so excited to welcome Jean Chatzky, award winning journalist, bestselling author, and motivational speaker. Jean has been teaching Americans how to manage money for 15 years.
You've probably seen Jean Chatzky talking about the economy and giving money-saving advice on the Today show or the Oprah show, but today she shares some savings tips with CafeMom.
Plus, she'll be answering a financial question from one lucky CafeMom. Ask Jean your money question in the comments on this post.
The Shoes vs. the Villa in Italy?
By Jean Chatzky
When we’re struggling through a recession, it’s hard to look far into the future and think about your retirement, but you should! Today you might be in your thirties, but tomorrow it’ll be 2033, and you’ll want to retire to a villa in Tuscany or simply have your mortgage paid off.
Name Your Future Hopes and Dreams
Of course, retirement plans are different for everyone, but it’s smart to make your dreams into something tangible by giving them a name. Instead of a retirement fund, call it “The Villa in Italy Fund,” for example. Put a little Frank Sinatra on your iPod or pictures of Tuscany or Umbria on your fridge—whatever reminds you of your future plans. Take a manila folder and put all your account statements in that folder, and decorate it with postcards from the Amalfi coast in Italy.
Sound corny? Sure, but what you’re doing is building an emotional environment within which you can save money. All of these things work together in harmony to help motivate you, and then when you see a cool, new, and unnecessary pair of shoes, it will be easier for you to say to yourself, “This is a choice between the shoes and Italy.” All of a sudden, you can leave the shoes in the store.
Saving Small Can Add Up
One reason many middle-income families don’t save is that they don’t believe they can come up with big enough sums of money to do it effectively. The fact is saving small amounts can be quite effective.
Start with a few dollars a day. If you can’t do that, start with your change. It sounds trivial, but I’ve heard story after story of people who accumulated hundreds of dollars that way, realized they could do it and worked harder to save even more. Then add an automatic transfer from checking to savings every month. Some banks are even willing to transfer money weekly if moving smaller amounts more frequently feels easier on your wallet.
Saving Money Can Heal Your Financial Soul
Finally, recognize that the saving process heals. It makes you feel better — like a better person, a better spouse, a better parent — to know that you have something put away for your future. Even saving small amounts of money can have a calming effect on your financial soul.
So, beyond the psychology, how do you save the most money? By not spending money!
I am not being flip or sarcastic. I am totally serious. Saving money means making a conscious choice to not buy those shoes and instead leave the money in your bank account — or your wallet — where it can grow into a little slush fund that will eventually become a bigger slush fund that you can eventually invest to fund your life’s dreams and goals.
Track Where You're Spending Your Money
The only way to get there is to start tracking where your money is going today. This is a tedious exercise — I want to acknowledge that right off the bat. But you do not have to do it forever. Instead, for the next month, make a commitment to write down every dollar — every dime — that you spend and where it goes. You can do this by tucking a notebook into your bag or back pocket and being diligent about taking notes, or you can (as I do) get a receipt every single time you make a purchase, shove those receipts into your wallet, and load them into a log (pencil and paper or computer) every few days.
Either way, what you will have when you are through is a road map that shows you where all of your money has gone. I guarantee if you have never done this, you will be surprised. You may see that more of your money is going to pet supplies or random trips to the grocery store or other nonessentials than you ever thought.
Once you have this information, you have choices. You can decide that you are going to spend less on certain items. You can decide that you are going to save the money that you do not spend. And you can put it away — in a money market account earning a decent rate of interest (these change constantly, but you can get a list at Bankrate.com) — until you decide where to invest it for the future.
So what’s it going to be; a pair of shoes today or a more comfortable tomorrow?
Have a money or financial question for Jean Chatzky? Leave it in the comments below. Jean will be back next week with an answer for one lucky reader.
Jean Chatzky is the financial editor for NBC’s Today show, a contributor to The Oprah Winfrey Show, and hosts her own daily radio program on Sirius XM’s Oprah & Friends Channel. She is also the author of numerous bestselling books, including The Difference: How Anyone Can Prosper in Even the Toughest Times (Crown Business).
She blogs daily at JeanChatzky.com.
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Comments (7)
Hi Jean - I have enjoyed your television appearances, and read anything I see with your name on it. When my SO sees you on TV he will agree with what you are saying, but then when I ask him to put it into practice I get a stone wall response. How do I convince the men in my life that paying oneself first is the only way they will ever get a payoff? (Son is worse then SO)
Thank you
Jean,
My husband lost his job in 12/23/2008. We lived off of tax refund, church and family help and food stamps till he found a job and in the meantime he and his business partner have been writing up a business plan for an evening club for the local college students and families. Bob found a job as a general manager of a burger place however. . . Our car is now under review even after applying for hardship rewrite and being denied before his promotion. A measly 500 will prevent it from review status. We've tried to get rid of it, sell it, trade it, offer it to a dealer for what it's worth (Half of what we owe). But it's upside down. And now, Our lease is up and Our landlord just sent an appraiser. I think they are worried. We've never been late, but then some of our rent came from family or church. We want to apply for a lease to own agreement... hoping that his promotion will be enough. And we are facing judgment. So, loan for a business, getting rid of the car without repossession and writing up a lease agreement in the hopes that things will soon get better, can you help?
My husband and I have recently run into a financial crisis we cannot seem to get out of. I had a Paypal account for my Ebay business I was running to get rid of my mom's antique. My oldest son began purchasing a bunch of tiems through a site called Zynga on Myspace for games he was playing. The paypal was set up to draw from my bank account and it withdrew us by a ton of money. Now it seems as if every week we are using his paycheck to get back out of the hole. Each time they pay a check they charge us 30.00 over the amount of the check. We have to pay bills, that is a given, and his work requires direct deposit of checks into an account. I have no where else to put the money. Help how can we get out of the hole and stay out??
What is your opnion on using whole life insurance as a saving investment vechile? Please elaborate.
If you are a 30-something corporate wife, than this is the book for you. While I enjoy watching segments of Jean Chatsky on Today, her book disappointmented me. She speaks to a population of women who are most likely married and have children. However, neither of those apply to me. I was looking for some tips that aren't common sense, yet most of her advice is common sense. Ladies, we all know we won't help our savings account if we buy $129 cashmere sweaters, yet Jean thinks that needs to be discussed numerous times, as well as online banking--a topic that is explained at least 5 times. If you never read or listened to financial advice, this may work for you. Otherwise, you probably already know these ideas and just need to find a way to motivate yourself.
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