How Many Times Have You Had Sex?

on December 30, 2009 at 7:22 AM

When I was young and single, I used to make a mark in my daily journal that indicated that I'd had sex. I'm not sure why, it's not like I ever counted them up. Maybe it was just a way of saying what I'd done that day without anyone who might read my diary ever knowing.

I stopped doing it years ago (keeping track, not having sex). But it made me wonder: Does anyone know how many times they've had sex (besides 18-year-old boys)? Lots of people keep track of partners, but do they keep track of instances?

Do you know how many times you've had sex in your life?

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About the author Suzanne Murray

is the Parenting & Political editor at The Stir/Moms Matter 2012.

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Peajewel

on Dec 30, 2009 at 8:10 AM

I would not even know where to begin! YIKES! I never kept track. Very interesting though....I had no idea people did. I just did it once, loved it and have done as much as I can ever since!

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Jennymomma3

on Dec 30, 2009 at 9:29 PM

I dont know the exact count. I do remember when I was a teen keeping track of when I had sex...sad, I know. As I got older I didnt so much. I voted for over a 1,000-though as I said the exact number isn't clear. I have had 3 sexual partners in my life and 2 of them were long terms. Great post....really made me think!!

toriandgrace

on Dec 31, 2009 at 9:05 PM

Well, probably 10 times before I was married, and I've been married for a year and a half, so I'm going to say more than 100 but less than 1000. That's all I've got.

GoodMomma24-7

on Jan 1, 2010 at 12:20 AM

lol - I have no idea how to even estimate that! I've been married for more than 16 years, so we're talking a really LARGE number...lol!

LILTIGERS

on Jan 1, 2010 at 7:07 PM

I have been married for 5years & he's my only partner I have never counted, but I do count how many days in between. Cuz if I get crabby & he asks why Ill say oh cuz its been 5days since Ive had my hormones adjusted by you lol!! He thinks its funny, but its funny cuz about the 5day I just get moody!! Im gonna count how many I get this year. The year jus started so I have sex 1s for 2010 lol..this should be fun!

RanaAurora

on Jan 1, 2010 at 9:34 PM

I have no idea. I used a calander like a tiny daily journal and would write little notes on it about what I DID that day, and I tracked my period and when I had sex. 17 times other than with hubby (NOT 17 people, but TIMES), but I have NO idea how many times with hubby.