Having worked in the lingerie industry for several years now, my sister, Kristin, is an expert on all things bra, breast, and nipple. She's Regional Manager and Fit Specialist for a large, well-known retail store; but I prefer to call her the "boobologist."
Today, I asked her to depart some wisdom on how to know if you are wearing the wrong bra size. She found out that I was wearing the wrong size and made me switch—seriously, it changed my life!
Here's what she had to say:
Eight out of 10 women are wearing the incorrect bra size. It's important to wear the correct size not only to improve your overall image and confidence levels, but also to help prevent physical ailments (such as back problems) down the line. The following are several indicators that it is time to invest in a new bra:
Issue 1: The band of your bra rides up in the back.
Why: When you purchased your bra, you either chose a band size that was too large, or you have worn your bra for so long that it has become stretched out. Your bra is the equivalent of a see-saw. If one side should travel upward, then the opposite will come down. Therefore, if the band is working its way north, then the girls are...yes you know the rest.
Issue 2: Your cups "runneth over."
Why: A woman should have two breasts, not four! The purpose of a bra—or let's say a supportive bra—is to lift and separate one breast from the other. If this is not happening, and your breasts are escaping from the confines of your cups, chances are your cups are too small.
Issue 3: You can fit your keys, wad of cash, and a snack for later in your bra.
Why: Denial. It your bra is gapping or wrinkling, probably the cup is too large. Give in, and admit it. Stop trying to be a bigger bra size than you are. My sister, Kim, had this issue—that's how she went from a C-cup to a B. It was a hard pill for her to swallow, but trust me she looks much better now.
Issue 4: You miss the turn for the supermarket because you were too busy trying to yank your falling bra straps back onto your shoulders.
Why: Your bra is too big. Every aspect of a bra is proportional to its size, meaning that the bigger the size of the bra, the bigger the band, cups, straps, etc. Stop spending your day uncomfortably trying to keep your bra from falling off and consider a new bra.
Issue 5: Your bra straps are digging and making dents into your shoulders.
Why: You are erroneously trying to delegate a very important job to your bra straps. A bra generates its support from your bra band which is why, as I pointed out in Issue 1, it is so important that the band fits snugly. Your straps are digging most likely because the band is not tight enough to perform its job function.
Stay tuned until next week when we will examine quick-and-easy fixes to these and other prevalent bra issues!
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Comments (20)
That's wonderful. Now if you can find me a bra that is COMFORTABLE AND FITS, I'll be your best friend. As of yet, I haven't found one.
LOL Well wish me luck finding an afforable bra in a 38H. Oh it has to be a nursing bra too.....
OK...what if your breasts are different sizes? My left one is smaller than my right. It is noticeable. How can you fix that?
GREAT question, JLee07. I know lots of women have that issue. I'll ask Kristin to address that next week.
I don't believe there IS a bra that fits me...I got measured at VS and the only bra that has straps that stay up is a racerback, which I love, but it limits my wardrobe considerably...
sk_tennyson check out this website: www.bravissimo.com. That is where I get my bras (34J) and they have 4 nursing bras that I really have liked. They are out of London, but shipping and all isn't that bad.
I don't think VS knows what they are doing with measuring. They have always telling me that a 36DD or DDD will fit when it clearly doesn't. I am a 34HH when I am not bf'd and a 34J when I am.
Generally VS does not know 100% what they're doing. They'll try and fit you into a bra size they carry.
I worked there for a year. I was one of the few who had a clue about proper fit and such. Maybe it is because I struggled for a long time to find my perfect fit.
I finally got measured a couple weeks ago for nursing bras and was amazed that I've been just trying so "squeeze by" in the wrong sizes for so long... finding the perfect and correct sized bra truly was a lifesaver, the girls are being well supported now and they look good!
i am so glad i found my right bra size. i went from a 38 DD to a 34 F. so much better! now if i could just find bras at a reasonable price.