Would You Watch Porn? With Your Man?

on March 17, 2009 at 3:30 PM

My girlfriends and I have very strong opinions on this topic.

One of my friends loves to watch certain sexy videos with her husband. Another would die if she had to look at the stuff--but she doesn't mind if her boyfriend does. Still another friend is offended by any and all pornographic material--she doesn't even approve of movie sex scenes.

I can see each of their points.

My personal take is that porn is sometimes too much. But I do enjoy some conventional rated-R movies--and I do not watch them for their plots.

CafeMoms recently asked this question in the Just For Fun Answers section: How many watch porn with their husbands or boyfriends? Here are a few responses:

"I do. We always end up having great sex."
"Once in a blue moon."
"No. It makes me feel insecure about my body. We don't watch it separately or together."

What do you think? Would you watch porn with him? Would you watch it by yourself?

Filed Under: body image, emotional health, self esteem, sex life, time for you

Comments (28)

smplsxyp

on Mar 17, 2009 at 3:39 PM

I have watched with my man and with out him...

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RanaAurora

on Mar 17, 2009 at 3:41 PM

I've watched it by myself and with my husband. With my husband generally accomplishes nothing, as we spend more time making fun of it.

Let's face it - most rated R movie sex scenes are actually better done and less hysterical than porn.

aidansmommy961

on Mar 17, 2009 at 3:53 PM

I watch porn both with my DH and without him

Mom2SKMB

on Mar 17, 2009 at 4:02 PM

No porn in this house. Ive heard many women here on CM say that its not true, but as Christians, we both stand firmly AGAINST all types of pornography.

zombie_mommy

on Mar 17, 2009 at 4:15 PM

We have porn in the house, we watch it together, we watch it alone. We have it on the computer. We both like porn. We both see nothing wrong with it. We're comfortable and secure with ourselves that its not an issue.

beazer

on Mar 17, 2009 at 4:35 PM

id watch withi have before and yes i would watch without the human body is beautiful

mrssundin

on Mar 17, 2009 at 4:54 PM

its a sin a man should never look at another woman in the way that he looks at his wife. if he does that he has already committed aldutry in his heart against her. same as when a woman does it.

lovemybabys1106

on Mar 17, 2009 at 4:56 PM

No porn is not sexy in anyway and really makes me want to gag. He likes it but I dont think there is room for it in our marriage so I dont allow it in our home. He does not look at it because he respects me and my wishes.