Valerie Harper Sees Terminal Brain Cancer As An 'Opportunity to Help People'

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valerie harperThree months to live. I can't imagine how it would feel, being told I had as little as a handful of weeks left on this planet. I assume it would be scary and sad and frustrating. I assume it would make me angry or depressed or send me into a stubborn denial. That's what's so amazing to me about 73-year-old Valerie Harper. When the actress who won America's hearts as Rhoda Morgenstern on The Mary Tyler Moore Show (and later, the spinoff Rhoda) was diagnosed with terminal brain cancer on January 15th and given approximately three months to live by her doctors, she responded in the most admirable way imaginable:

"I don't think of dying," she said. "I think of being here now."

Wow. Harper's bravery and grace are nothing short of astounding. Of course, she's beat cancer before (lung cancer in 2009), but the particular form of brain cancer she's currently fighting is extremely rare and virtually incurable ...

Called leptomeningeal carcinomatosis, the disease accounts for less than 2% of all cancers and occurs when cancer cells spread into the fluid-filled membrane surrounding the brain. According to Harper's oncologist, Dr. Ronald Natale, director of the Lung Cancer Research Program at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles, the condition "comes on quickly and progresses quickly." It's especially complicated because the fluid circulating through the brain is growing cancer cells, so the brain ends up coated in cancer.

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Symptoms include seizures, blurry vision and severe headaches, as well as a "a belt-like sensation" across the midsection. Harper also experienced numbness in her jaw.

A horrible, fatal disease. But Harper's first thoughts after being diagnosed weren't about the suffering she would experience -- they were about the suffering she hopes to prevent others from experiencing:

"I was stunned ... and in the next minute I thought, 'This could draw more attention to cancer research.' I think there's an opportunity to help people."

I hope Valerie Harper knows that she's already helping people, and that she always has -- just by being herself.

Are you impressed by Valerie Harper's reaction to a terminal cancer diagnosis?

 

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Krist... KristinRox

I am extremely impressed with her reaction. Its such an admirable way to go on living after been given such devestating news. She has such a graceful, positive way of living. Its amazing. 

Bob192 Bob192

She has done lots of things to make people happy!!  Even now she is staying positive!

kellynh kellynh

I watched her for years!!

godde... goddess99

She has a great attitude. My aunt also has brain cancer, she was given a short tome to live as well. That was 20 years ago, she's still alive and kicking.

jessi... jessicasmom1

what a shame .. I remember her on tv ... time flys by

jessi... jessicasmom1

there comes a time in life when one feels .. enough is enough ...... sadly

sukainah sukainah

She is brave.  I'm not sure if I would have the same strength as her.  I worry a lot and I would be thinking of everything that I would have to get done in those 3 months.

stars... starshine81

I am impressed by Valerie's reaction, but she has always had a great attitude about everything.  I remember when she was unfairly fired from her sitcom (Valerie's Family) by Lorimar and did the talk show circuit.  She had a positive attitude then wanting to fight for what is right.  She wasn't all about ego.  She wanted justice and to send a message out to those in the industry to do the right thing.  I've always been amazed by her warm kind spirit and desire to do right by others.  I am not at all surprised she wants to go out this way.  I hope the best for her.

dusky... dusky_rose

Wow! God bless her!

nonmember avatar Marci

W.ow. I have admired and loved Valerie for years- since she was 1st Rhoda. She has always had a classy, optimistic attitude. I truly wish her all the best and may she keep smiling and not suffer. LOVE LOVE LOVE

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