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It's Confirmed: Valentine's Day Robs Men Blind

Posted by Maressa Brown
on Feb 14, 2012 at 5:37 PM

valentine's day wishesHey you attached ladies. Right now, as you wrap up for the day at work and/or put the kids down for a nap and/or return from picking them up from school, your DH/SO/BF is likely out there at the mall/candy store/drugstore/florist picking up approximately $168.74 worth of clothing, jewelry, and other gifts for you for Valentine's Day. That's what the National Retail Federation has found at least. Overall, everyone's expected to shell out $17.6 billion for the Hallmark holiday. Seeing a number like that's probably enough to make you want to stop in your tracks, pick up your cell, and text your man, "NNNNNNOOOOOOO!!! STOOOOP!" ... right? Or maybe not. Maybe you spend the same or more on him?

Doubtful. The NRF also found that $168.74 is nearly double the amount women will spend on their guys. Excuse moi? Is it just me or is that stat totally disheartening? Yeah, I'm all about ladies being treated like royalty by their men, but since when did this holiday become another "her day"? 

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Justin Bieber's Touching Valentine's Date Will Make You a Belieber (VIDEO)

Posted by Maressa Brown
on Feb 14, 2012 at 2:46 PM

Justin Bieber and Avalanna Routh
Justin Bieber gets a kiss on the cheek from fan Avalanna Routh
These days, just about anyone with an Internet connection or television has an opinion about Justin Bieber. But whether you love him, hate him, or simply cringe every time you hear an adolescent girl shriek his name, you gotta admit the kid has become a force to be reckoned with. But I've wondered if the fame has made him lose that genuine, down-to-earth vibe he and his mom have been marketing since day one ... Now, it looks like we have our answer.

The pop star went on a Valentine's Day date with one of his biggest fans yesterday. But she's not your average little girl suffering from a common case of Bieber Fever. Avalanna Routh is a 6-year-old who has for most of her young life battled an aggressive and rare form of cancer known as ATRT that is diagnosed in less than 30 cases per year.

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Technology Say What!?

10 Hilarious 'Candy Heart Reject' Tweets Will Make You LOL

Posted by Kim Conte
on Feb 14, 2012 at 2:38 PM

candy heartsNow, typically, candy hearts don't get people excited in the slightest: They're cheap and chalky tasting with really lame slogans imprinted on top. But "candy heart rejects" are a whole different story.

If Valentine's Day has got you down in the dumps with all the cheesy proclamations of love, then you definitely are going to want to check out #candyheartrejects on Twitter. By the time you scroll through all the incestuous, misogynistic, and dirty sayings, you won't even remember that you weren't on the receiving end of all those flowers and candy boxes today. In fact, you'll probably need a shower, and we mean that in the most clean way possible.

Imagine if you were to get a candy heart with one of the following sayings on it ... Best Valentine's Day ever! We rounded up some of the funniest. What are you waiting for -- take a look!

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Entertainment OMG

'Game of Thrones' Valentine's Day Cards Will WIN His Heart

Posted by Jacqueline Burt
on Feb 14, 2012 at 2:25 PM

game of thrones valentineOkay, all you Valentine's Day slackers out there! Here's hoping the object of your affection is a Game of Thrones fan, because if he is? You're totally in luck: The most amazing valentine cards I've ever seen are just a click away. (Oh, and if he's not? Why on earth are you with that loser? Dump him immediately!)

Anyway, if Hallmark existed during medieval times, I imagine greeting cards would have looked something like these awesome print-out valentines by genius illustrator Chris Bishop.

Bear in mind, romance was a bit different back then ...

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Food & Party Yum!

10 Decadent Chocolate Recipes for a Sweet Valentine's Day (PHOTOS)

Posted by Emily Abbate
on Feb 14, 2012 at 1:34 PM

Valentine's Day Chocolate Lover's CupcakeAbsolutely nothing says Valentine's Day like chocolate. Whether you're a chocolate covered strawberry fanatic or a sucker for molten lava cake, there's a recipe for every kind of mocha lover perfect for today's Hallmark holiday. The best part? Chocolate tastes good whether you're hooked up or flying solo. Who said diamonds were a girl's best friend, right?

Take these ah-MAZ-ing chocolate lover's cupcakes (right) from How Sweet It Is, for example. Do they not just scream eat me for breakfast, lunch, snack, AND dinner? Don't you totally agree that making and gobbling down a few of these will make today the ultimate day for L-O-V-E?

I thought so. Want more? Feast your eyes on these 10 decadent chocolate recipes perfect for Valentine's Day, here:

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6 Pieces of Valentine's Love Advice From a Psychic

Posted by Sasha Brown-Worsham
on Feb 14, 2012 at 10:10 AM

Valentine's Day is a day for love, but it's also a day to reflect on love. Are you in love? If so, are you getting the love you want or is there still something missing? If not, could a psychic healer help you?

For those of us who are married, it can sometimes feel that even though the love is right in front of us, it isn't exactly the way we want it to be. He can be too distant or there can be too little sex. We can feel misunderstood or not listened to when, really, the answers for how to have good love are actually right in front of us.

Psychic to the stars Jusstine Kenzer has a lot to say about love. With Valentine's Day in mind, Kenzer gave The Stir her six pieces of advice for getting the love we want on Valentine's Day (and every day). Here they are:

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Food & Party Yum!

7 Last-Minute Valentine’s Day Treats You’ll Love

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Feb 13, 2012 at 7:41 PM

chocolate mousseValentine's Day is tomorrow and you're all ready with your homemade chocolate truffles and pink frosted heart cookies and your red velvet cupcakes, right? NO?!? Yeah, me neither. I spent the weekend running errands, cleaning the bathroom, and trying to sort out our growing pile of mis-matched socks.

But it's not too late, would-be Valentiners! I've compiled here for you some fun, super-easy Valentines food treats to dazzle your hungry loved ones. Here's some breakfast ideas, dinner ideas, and a luscious dessert with just 2 ingredients.

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5 Ways to TREAT YO SELF This Valentine's Day

Posted by Lindsay Mannering
on Feb 13, 2012 at 6:32 PM

valentine's dayValentine's Day is encroaching and there's nothing we can do to stop it. Every year it pops up here in the middle of February, and every year we either clamour for dinner reservations with our lover boys or drink to our single heart's content alone on the couch. I mean, that's what everyone says you do, but really, why would I sit on the couch when lying in bed with my Merlot is so much more comfy and cozy. Please.

Anyway, if you happen to find yourself single this Valentine's Day, don't hide in bed. Don't sit on the couch. And for god's sake, don't tweet about how "lonely" you are. Instead, TREAT YO SELF. Make it the one day this year that you treat yo self to some cupcakes, to mimosas, or to some fine. leather. goods. Parks and Rec was definitely on to something. So! In that vein, here are 5 ideas to get you thinking about how you'll want to pamper yourself this Valentine's/Singles Awareness Day.

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Food & Party Yum!

5 Chocolate Truffle Recipes Just in Time for Valentine’s Day

Posted by April Peveteaux
on Feb 13, 2012 at 6:20 PM

chocolate truffle valentines dayGet ready to shower your loved ones in cards, flowers, cute sayings, and of course, chocolate. It's that time of year when we can drink champagne and chow down on sweets in the name of love. I, for one, will totally be getting in on that action. But instead of buying a box of expensive chocolate truffles, I'm going to try my hand at making my own this year.

After all, you'll know exactly what's inside each and every ball of fun, and you'll know how to make them all year round. Bake sales and birthday parties will never be the same once you've mastered the truffle.

Here are five different ways you can whip up a batch of chocolate-y goodness for Valentine's Day ... and beyond!

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Love & Sex Heartbreaking

This Is the Perfect Place for Lonely Hearts on Valentine’s Day

Posted by Adriana Velez
on Feb 13, 2012 at 6:05 PM

mix tapesFor the broken-hearted, Valentine's Day is a horror show. It's a day when you just want to call in sick, pull the covers over your head, and rock back and forth humming to yourself until it all goes away. And it will -- in 24 hours! But still, who is looking out for these poor souls? Where is their refuge on this most painful day of the year?

Well good news, members of the broken-hearted club. You could spend the day at the Museum of Broken Relationships. It's a museum loaded with mementos of love gone wrong, wrong, wrong. Here's a museum where you could go and feel your feelings, with no one there to tell you to get over it already, he's not worth it!

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