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I wrote about my discussion with Heather Snavely of Microsoft's Xbox 360. Heather gave me some good guidelines for monitoring kids playing video games and surfing the web. She recommends that families have a plan or list of guidelines for how a game system or computer should be used.
Parental guidelines should include:
* Limiting screen time for your kids.
* Selecting age-appropriate games or content.
* Limiting access to who your kids can connect to online.
The Xbox website has some ideas for creating a family PACT or family plan for using video games and computers.
Healthy Gaming Guide
Playing video games is supposed to be a relaxing recreational activity. Things to consider when playing video games (or sitting at a computer):
* Position: Make sure your position is not encouraging discomfort.
* Breaks: Stepping away at regular intervals is important.
Position Yourself While Playing
* Choose a chair that provides support for your lower back.
* Keep your wrists straight while holding and using controllers.
* Avoid bending your wrists up, down, or to the sides.
Take Breaks and Change Tools
The length and frequency of breaks that are right for you depend on the type of activity you are doing. Stopping the activity and relaxing is one way to take a break.
Changing the tools used to play a game another method for taking a break. For example, use the controller pad instead of the control stick.
Tools for Families
Since my discussion was with a representative of Microsoft's Xbox 360, the family controls listed below are specific to the Xbox game system. However, there are parental controls for every game system and for Internet use! If you don't own an Xbox, look for similar features and controls.
The Xbox 360 Family Settings allow you to restrict access to games based on the rating as well as control access to the online Xbox LIVE service:
* Manage who your child can communicate with on Xbox LIVE.
* Decide who can see your child's gamer profile and online status.
* Limit your child's exposure to content created by other members of Xbox Live.
* Set limits on console play time using the Family Timer.
You can create personal settings for each child, which applies to their Xbox Live account even when they use it outside the home! I did this to my children's profiles after talking to Heather and my teen daughter was sour!
Read more about Parental Controls on the Xbox website. Parents have to keep ahead of the technology curve!
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Comments (2)
Gaming is the favorite pastime in my house. It's pretty much the family hobby. Nevertheless, even I limit their playing time, because it's not healthy to sit in front of a screen all day. Also, my kids never get unsupervised internet time, and they never will. The family computer is in a common housebold area where it can be seen easily, and the children are not allowed on the internet without an adult present. They are also not allowed to play online games even through a game console without an adult. There are just too many holes in the parental control settings, in my opinions. My teenager does not have a Myspace page, or anything similar, even though she has begged. Crafty pedophiles find ways around parental controls and website guidelines every day. You can never be too safe!
We like playing games too. Not only do I limit my kids game time, I also limit my own as an example. We play pc games and just got a Wii. I don't have a myspace or facebook page so my kids don't either. I also have a different log on password for myself on our pc. So when they get on I know the parental controls I set will not allow any online chat or adult content. I also have the computer in the living room so I can keep an eye on things. So far this arrangement has worked nicely. I do, however, find it hard to find good sites that empower everyday good habits in tweens. Some might say we should trust our kids but that's not the issue. Previous parent made a good point about the pedophiles.