Kailyn Lowry & Javi Marroquin's Relationship Isn't So Perfect After All

It seems like Kailyn Lowry and Javi Marroquin have the perfect relationship. They're always doting on each other, sending love notes over social media, and just generally being disgustingly sweet and loving toward one another.

But have the Teen Mom 2 stars taken things too far and developed an unhealthy co-dependent relationship? Javi sent out a worrisome, mopey tweet on Friday that could mean things are too good to be true over in the Marroquin house.

Kail is currently out of town in Las Vegas, promoting her book Pride Over Pity, throwing a Scentsy Party, and possibly getting a new tattoo. Javi stayed home, and it's obvious he's missing her fiercely.

Oh my gosh, is that not the biggest feeling-sorry-for-yourself sentiment ever? He hopes he gets done cleaning the house so he can go see a movie by himself because he's so sad and lonely and has no friends? But don't feel bad guys, because #itscooltho.

It is not cool! It's one thing to miss each other, but another person can't be your whole world. When you're in a stable relationship, you have to trust that bond, and you can rely on it, sure, but you can't rely on that person to be the sole supplier of happiness in your life.

There's a difference between having an intimate connection with another person that no one else can get between and emotional dependence on another person. It isn't a healthy relationship if they only have each other.

Do you think Javi's tweet is bad news for him and Kail?

 

Image via Kailyn Lowry/Instagram

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nonmember avatar Krystian Kaufol

No.....



I am like that when I spend a night away from my husband.....nothing wrong with that.

nonmember avatar Hillary A

No. He could just be making a glib remark. They have posted pictures of them with friends before. His friends probably couldn't go out so he "had no friends".

Seriously why over think something so small?

Marcie Borgula

I don't think their relationship is perfect any way you,look at it. Kail has admitted to hitting Javi during fights, saying that sometimes she thinks not being married would be easier and that she can barely take him. She hits him. That right there says they are far from perfect.

nonmember avatar Angela

I think the author is reaching with this topic. There's no such thing as a 'PERFECT' relationship, but Javi & Kail seem to be alright (tho no one knows what goes on behind closed doors, for anyone - not just Javi & Kail). But Javi's tweet doesn't lead me to believe he needs to be on suicide watch because Kail's out of town.

Ana Gutierrez Altagracia

Personally I think your over thinking it. I myself know what its like to be apart from your other half, my husband is deployed but before he left we did everything together, spent all our time together when we weren't working or hanging out with friends for like an hr or so but other than that we were always going everywhere with each other, and when he left it was really hard being w/o him it still is, and I dont see it being emotional dependent, thats my better half and spending time with him is the best thing in the world not because im emotionally dependent but because no one gets me better than him, not only is he my husband but my best friend. And there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. No offense but if you think that spending all your time with YOUR husband/wife is being emotionally dependent than you dont really have that true soul mate connection with that significant other. Its not easy being away from your better half, especially when you dont have many friends or family in the same state/ city which is the case of Javi and Kail. So to me as a military spouse it is understandable.

krist... kristensmommy

Wow. Could you twist his words and blow things anymore out of proportion? This site desperately needs to writers. Smh.

nonmember avatar Crystal

I think you're reading in to his tweet way too deep. Maybe he is feeling a tad bit lonely and sorry for himself,  but you don't know if it's 100% because kailyn isn't around. What if he just had a bad day or feels distant from his buddies. My point is, quit trying to create problems out of a simple meaningless tweet! 

nonmember avatar Bystander

I'm sorry but never could stand her from the beginning. I actually seen her and her son and friend in Philadelphia at the tattoo show this year and she was so stuck up and rude to anybody in her way it was embarrassing to watch. But this article is far reached, it's ok to have a night alone and not talk about failed marriage.

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