Often while watching reality TV, I find myself wondering, "What aren't we seeing?" Obviously we're not seeing the crew members hiding behind couches, the lights, the cameras, all that. But what else goes on behind the scenes? We've got lawsuits, the psychology of NeNe Leakes, and just how a Real Housewife gets fired (from someone who has been there!).

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This week on I Dream of NeNe: The Wedding, I wondered whether Gregg Leakes would ever go off script. Doesn't it seem to you that he has one or two bullet points of dialogue he keeps repeating over and over? WELL, this week he finally spoke up on his own. It's about time. In today's exclusive video, I'll explain why I think both NeNe and Gregg are shooting themselves in the foot with the prenuptial agreement drama.

Now, those of you tuning in know that NeNe went postal on her first wedding planner, Tiffany Cook, and brought in a second, Tony Conway, who planned the wedding. BUT ... did you know that Tiffany subsequently sued NeNe? The suit was filed before these episodes aired, so I can only IMAGINE what's going on in her office today. I offer up my commentary on how the wedding planner fiasco went horribly wrong and how a reality show, ANY reality show, helped the disaster happen.

Finally, more Real Housewives of Orange County news. I've been watching the stories surface about Gretchen Rossi and Alexis Bellino. As someone who has first-hand experience at not only being a housewife, but also being replaced, I give you all my background experience about where those leaked stories come from, what might be happening right now, and where they go from here. You're going to want to watch this!!

Who do you think is worse -- NeNe or her bridesmaids?


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