'RHOM' Joanna Krupa's Confession About Her Sex Life Is Painfully Honest

joanna krupa romain zagoReal Housewives of Miami star Joanna Krupa is so freakin' gorgeous, you might glance at her and think every day of her life is charmed. But the newlywed -- who tied the knot with longtime BF club owner Romain Zago in June -- set the record straight recently, telling Life & Style that her life isn't as perfect as it appears. At least not her sex life

She confessed Romain "can go forever without [sex]. Then when we have a conversation, it turns into an argument. He doesn’t feel anything is wrong -- and I just want to be thrown down.” Whoa! I can't believe/I'm so impressed with how forthcoming she's being about their challenges in the bedroom!

Joanna shared that they've been going to therapy together for three months, elaborating:

Since I met him, something was off. I now feel that the issue of him not caring to have sex as much as I do has to come from his childhood.

Ugh, my heart goes out to her. Being with a guy whose libido is lower than yours is NOT an easy cross to bear. Especially since we live in a society that tells us men are supposed to be constantly craving sex and ready for it at the drop of a hat! That can really set a woman in Joanna's shoes up for some seriously rough feelings of inadequacy and insecurity -- even when the imbalance may have absolutely nothing to do with the relationship or the man's desire for his partner. Instead, low libido or disinterest might be related to something like stress, medications, mental or physical issues/illness, or hormonal imbalance.

That said, it sounds like Joanna is really handling an especially challenging situation in the best possible way. She's communicating with Romain -- and they've even made a conscious effort to boost intimacy. She admitted that they've taken to scheduling sex, explaining:

Sometimes it’s once a week, sometimes every other week, sometimes every three weeks. We made a commitment when we got married. I just want to feel the passion.

Aww. Good for both of them for putting in the work! Of course, the idea of scheduling sex is a turn-off for some, but if it keeps the "passion" alive for a couple, it makes perfect sense. After all, even sex that Siri has to remind you about is better than no sex at all, right?

What do you think about Joanna's conundrum? If you've ever been in a similar situation, how did you cope?


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nonmember avatar Kimber

I was in a similar situation with my fiance. Sex went from regular to less regular to non-existant. Literally, none. At all. After years of begging for him to see a doctor or a therapist or just TALK TO ME about what was wrong, I finally gave up and moved on with my life.

nonmember avatar Rachel

I have been there too, kinda. I was with a guy almost two years, sex was great, then went down to almost nothing. I tried everything. No results. I ended up gaining weight from stress eating and bordum. All the sudden he's all over me again. Turns out he had been cheating on me with a very very heavy girl and that's what he's into. Once I was bigger he was into me again! Problem is that's not healthy and he's a cheater!

nonmember avatar Mr. Miami

As of labor day, Joanna and Romain are no longer together. In fact Romain is telling everyone they are divorcing. Who saw that coming LMAO

nonmember avatar Angel Rios

I've spoken to quite a few very lovely ladies who've also feel as Joanna does. I appreciate that they feel comfortable talking to me about some of the things going on in their lives. It does cross my mind while listening that were it were me I'm 100% sure I would satisfy their needs. Tho it's just heathy fantasy. But I would blessed man,with ppplenty libido,if GOD sent me an ANGEL in the form of JOANNA. The moment I layed eyes on her I thought,my oh my,I'd just love to have a few hours of foreplay before I threw her down in bed and pleased her until she were satisfied. That would be my satisfaction,but I'm absolutely sure Joanna would want to also please me. And what I've read she's a pleaser as I am. She has such a beautifully loving face,lovely lips and body I kiss from head to toes. Must say tho,I know and have seen what seemed to be nice lovely women,turns out were very ugly inside. I could write on and on,but I'll save it for the time's when ``I'm in the grace of Joanna``. YOUR ABSOLUTELY DELICIOUS,I'M SURE. I'd love the opportunity to meet then ravish you with all the passion we could handle. Until then I wish you happiness and a pleasurefull life. LOVE,THE ANGEL YOUR WAITING FOR. ;-)

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