Nina Dobrev Is Totally Over Ian Somerhalder (No, We Swear)

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Ian Somerhalder, Nina DobrevPoor Nina Dobrev. She's young, gorgeous, successful, and got to see that smokin' hunk of burnin' love, Ian Somerhalder, naked. But no one cares. No one cares, my friends. She's just pitied. Pitied because she lost that smokin' hunk of burnin' -- what was I saying? Well, anyway, Nina is single now. (Sob.) But, no, seriously, people!!! This isn't 1912. Nina is a modern woman, she can be single if she wants. And apparently that is definitely what she wants. The Vampire Diaries star says: "I don't need no stinkin' man." Haha. No, she told US Weekly:

I've been a relationship girl and I've been in long-term relationships my whole life until this point, so I think I'm looking forward to spending some time with myself and finding myself again.

And, no, that is not code for: "I'm still so broken up about Ian that I can even THINK of knocking boots with someone new." Okay, maybe it is.

I mean, what is the girl going to say? "I just broke up with Ian but I can't WAIT to get back into a relationship again because I SUCK at being single, have no friends, and need a man in my life because I feel worthless"?

Of course she is not going to say that!! Because it's not true!! (Cue up: "Since You Been Gone" by Kelly Clarkson.)

Nina goes on:

I'm just discovering different sides of me and growing and then I'll figure out what I like in a man when I see it. It's all about finding out what meshes and what doesn't, and what you like and what you don't. Life is about experiences, so I guess I'm just figuring that out.

Which is definitely NOT another way of saying, "I'm crushed about the breakup with that sickeningly hot stud Ian and am just waiting until he comes to his senses and realizes what he lost, and comes crawling back on hands and knees, begging and pleading."

She's totally not thinking that, you guys!!! Cut her some slack!! I still can't get over how they broke up right after they rushed their sick cat to the vet in the middle of the night. Who does that???

Anyway, it's clear from what Nina is saying that she's feeling strong, confident, and ready to discover who she is as a person. And she's totally not blubbering in her pillow every night. Sheesh, you cynical people.

Do you think Nina is over Ian?

 

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Delia Gitu

hmmmm who cares about Nina? I'm glad that Ian is single now :)

nonmember avatar Clare

I hope it's over. Ian is a man not interested in a face pulling junior highschooler. I got tired of Nina's attention seeking and annoying self centred stupidity ages ago. At least Ian is business as usual. Nina has to draw attention to herself and keep riding the media with her odd comment and intentional tweet here and there. There's obviously not much happening in the acting department or good causes outside of herself.

nonmember avatar Michelle

I have to agree with Clare. Nina comes off as a self-involved party girl every since she broke up with Ian. I unfollowed her on Twitter because her tweets are just downright annoying. If this silly thing is what she is becoming now that she is finding herself, then Ian is SOOOOO much better off without her. I mean, come on! Now that she's finding herself, she turns into some silly girl with a junior high school mentality. I'm quite disappointed, actually. I thought the girl had more substance. I guess not.

nonmember avatar Cindy

I agree with Michelle. Nina isn't doing herself any good the last few months. I realize that she is young, but there a women that are married with children her age. Her tweeting declaring her happiness is just old.

nonmember avatar Taylor

She is definitely showing her 20 something side by the endless pix of her and her girlfriends.. i unfollowed her as well.. a lot of "look at me, don't I look over him??" I have met Ian on the set of TVD a couple of times and he is a pretty cool and laid back guy.. I have seen her but not met her because she is rather standoffish..maybe it's her age. He can do better and hopefully, closer to his age and maturity.

nonmember avatar eowyn

her reason about her age that is why they broke up is just lame...so what if you are 24...i guess she is not matured...many people i know who are 24 are mature and have kids...ian deserves somebody who has the same passion as him...not some girl who only wants to have fun...get a life...

nonmember avatar kam

I absolutely love nina dobrev... but I guess finding herself includes partying all the time... haha ha ha..........

nonmember avatar kam

lol nope not trying to find herself. She just wants to have ''fun''..

nonmember avatar Lorraine

I agree highly Eowyn saying that Nina needs to get a life and the rest of you guys saying about her being very immature for her age. I agree and Ian so deserves better than that.

nonmember avatar Lorraine

I agree highly Eowyn saying that Nina needs to get a life and the rest of you guys saying about her being very immature for her age. I agree and Ian so deserves better than that.

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