Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis have been dating since his very public and well publicized split from actress Demi Moore in 2011. Now, it seems, Ashton and Mila are talking marriage, and all I can say is SLOW IT DOWN PEOPLE.
The rumor got started when their former costar from That '70s Show, Laura Prepon, claimed that she is going to be a bridesmaid and that it's not a question of IF, but when the two are going to be wed. Sounds pretty delicious, no? At least as far as rumors go. And yet, I can't help think: Wasn't he JUST married to Demi?
A person needs time to adjust to a new life and to be single. He may not need to date around or play the field, but getting married again? That's a different proposition.
Marriage is a massive commitment, one that ought to be taken very seriously. If a person can be divorced once, it only makes sense that they would need time and distance away from that marriage to reassess their lives, figure out what went wrong, and bring their newfound wisdom into their new marriage.
Ashton hasn't had that time. He was dating Mila before he was two feet out the door of the house he shared with Demi. It's hard to imagine he has processed anything. That might be fine for him, but for Mila? That could be a nightmare.
She would be smart to encourage him to wait it out. He needs to give it time. Maybe they get married in a year or so, let his divorce breathe a bit. Any sooner and they are just asking for it ...
Do you think it's too soon to jump into marriage #2 for Ashton?
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