'Bachelor' Sean Lowe & Catherine Giudici's 'Pre-Wedding Honeymoon' Is Exactly What They Need

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Freaking. Finally. It's certainly taken long enough, but it sounds like Bachelor Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici's relationship may be headed in a more, well -- normal direction.

If a new rumor about Sean and Catherine's honeymoon plans is true, then maybe they've figured out that this whole "waiting for marriage to have sex" bullsh&% is never going to work.

Supposedly they were overheard talking about taking a "pre-wedding honeymoon" -- which was a piece of advice given to them by former Bachelor winner Melissa Rycroft. She thinks they need a little time away to "focus on the relationship," which sounds like a nice way of saying Sean and Catherine need to go ahead and do the dirty and get it over with before tying the knot. (Or at least that's how I interpret her words.)

And the choice of term to describe the trip is key here. Pre-wedding honeymoon. Not a vacation. Not a weekend getaway. A honeymoon. And we all know what the main purpose of a honeymoon is. Duh -- to have lots and lots of sex morning, noon, night, and everything in between.

OMG. Could it really be happening? Have Sean and Catherine really had a change of heart -- and now plan on sealing the deal before saying "I do"?

If so, it's by far the best thing they can do to get their marriage off to a good start. I've said it before and I'll say it again -- if you're going to spend the rest of your life with someone, it's probably a good idea to make sure you have sexual chemistry first. Because if things aren't working in the bedroom -- everything else will start to fall apart too. Sex isn't everything, but then again, it kind of is.

But wait a minute -- what if Sean and Catherine plan on staying in separate rooms on this little honeymoon of theirs? Ugh. That would really suck. What's the point of a honeymoon if there's no fantasy suite involved? I mean, I guess they can always try and spice things up by getting adjoining rooms, so they can be right next to each other without sleeping in the same space -- but that will probably just make the temptation worse, and they'll both wind up frustrated and cranky. And that will ruin the whole trip, and then they'll start reevaluating their relationship because they don't travel well together, and that will be all she wrote.

Yep. My vote is for pre-wedding honeymoon sex -- for sure. If they don't go all the way on their little excursion, it may wind up being the worst mistake they ever made.

Do you think a pre-wedding honeymoon is a good idea?

 

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mommy... mommytojack0524

"this whole "waiting for marriage to have sex" bullsh&% is never going to work"


To the author--it can work. It did for me.  It's a very legitimate choice that deserves more respect than you gave it. Believe me, no one was disappointed on my wedding night. We've been married for 5 years and are very happy in all aspects of our marriage.


 Where is all that tolerance we're all supposed to have for each other's choices?



nonmember avatar Jennifer Vermee

Both my husband and I waited to have sex until we were married. In fact, we were both virgins--and not just "Born Again Virgins." I applaud Sean and Catherine for waiting. I don't think it's BS. I think the waiting made our wedding night and every night after seem that much more special...not to mention the build up that came with the waiting made it awesome. Kudos to Sean and Catherine. Don't give in, no matter how much the media is pressuring you!

nonmember avatar ann wilson

i do agree, that there are some people in this world do not know how to restrain themselves, but i do applaud sean and catherine to do what he think is right ....when a man just go and sleep with someone we call him a dog, but you do not seem to get what sean and catherine is saying their faith has guided them so far, in our relationship with God the bible teaches us that there is no relations before marriage, and they are adhere to the bible and also to their faith ...thank u.

hexxuss hexxuss

I'll stick to my "always a honeymoon, never getting married" plan =) thanks anyway lol.  As far as whether or not these 2 do or don't? I feel pretty confident that I don't want to know, and my life won't suffer in the least for my lack of knowledge on it.

Monica Kubisz

No! No pre wedding honeymoon.

nonmember avatar Joanne

It does work and they would be fools to give in to media or anyones pressure - i.e. this article. Read what hexxuss and everyone should get why marriage is not working today - married for 40 years and waited!

nonmember avatar Astro

I disagree. You can definitely tell if you have chemistry without having sex. I didn't have sex until my wedding night, and my husband says I am the best lover he has ever had. We have a great sex life & are still married. It might not work for everyone, but I do not see why people care so much about someone else wanting to wait.

Judy Durfey Schreier

I think have sex before Sean and Catherine's marriage would be a HUGE mistake. Their love and honor and respect will be much stronger for all their lives if they wait. It is SICK to think someone needs to have sex before marriage. If you love someone, you love them forever, regardless of sex before marriage.

Nancy Dell-Worley

no I think that if you are Christian and belive in Jesus Christ things will all come to gather because he has given you who he wants you to have.

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