Nina Dobrev Cries When Talking to Ian Somerhalder -- Can You Blame Her?

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Ian Somerhalder & Nina DobrevI feel bad for Nina Dobrev. Heck, I even feel bad for Kristen Stewart. These lady vampires are going through these massive breakups in public and that can't be easy for anyone. I can't handle my emotions and I don't have a bazillion people watching and analyzing my every move. After their recent breakup, Nina and ex Ian Somerhalder were seen out in public for the first time Thursday promoting their show Vampire Diaries at a CW event in New York, and according to a source, it was rough.

The source tells Us that Nina and Ian had a heart-to-heart at the end of the event and during it Nina's eyes welled up and she looked very, very upset.

Um, OF COURSE she was! This is hard stuff! Just think: most of us can try to gain some space between past relationships. But Nina, she has to see this guy all the time for work and they were in a three-year relationship. That's not easy!

My heart hurts just thinking about the conversation the two of them coulda been having. You know, that first conversation you have with someone that means a lot to you when you know that the two of you are no longer together.

It's a pinnacle moment. At that moment, you can vibe out if the two of you are meant to be just friends. At that moment, you can rise above the past issues you had and just try to be there for that other person without the romantic entanglement. At that moment, I'm usually in hysterics.

It's important though. After some time has passed and the breakup is finalized, it's important to either get closure or know where you stand. For Nina, I can only imagine how hard this kind of talk was to have with cameras looming. Here's hoping the next time, the two of them can talk in a more private setting.

Have you ever had that first post-breakup talk? Was it difficult for you?


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Jess Wainright

Seriously??!! Her eyes welled up? Funny how she can't seem to do it when she acts... She the worst crier I've seen. She sucks!

nonmember avatar Ginnie

Don't feel sorry for Nina. Ian deserves better and will find that special woman soon.

nonmember avatar Susie

*lol* I agree with you Jess. Those tears(if this article is true) are just actress tears,not real ones.

nonmember avatar Nicole

Why are you all being so hateful toward Nina? She has done nothing wrong. She loves Ian, but she's not ready to get married because she's young. Why is that bad? If Ian really loves her, he may wait for her to be ready. If not, life goes on, but don't bash on Nina. You don't know her.

Susie Becker Aagard

I read that the shows or movies sometimes set the cast members up to protrray they are a couple to get ratings. Do you think they really do this?

Julie Dupré

I prefer Ashlee Green for play Ana !!

Tina Tomashek

Yeah I can't believe they were in a 3 year relationship and all of a sudden it is all over.  If they really love each other they will get back together.  Even though Nina is not ready to settle down, if she really loves him she will not let him go


Monica Dayan Shpilman

Nina is a wonderful person  and everybody hurts when going through a break up. I for one still have hope they will get back together . It is not nice too attack people when they are down and trying to show the world a brave stand. Good luck to both of them. 

Cea Reaa was more like Ian was in tears almost...nina is quite the practical,glam,fam,loving ambitious thing..and i a hurry to get famous..thinking she'd really become some sophia loren or some such...Ian was good for passing time,now it's time for bigger things for her..LOL ;) Ian,on the other hand was dreaming a simple life with the woman,he was okay if she worked and stuff as long as they had a commitment...but the nina lady never ever showed him public affection when it mattered...lack of regard and respect...Ian,too bad,these type of  females should just be dumped sooner than later...let her go get her fame,and soon maybe will get another man,tease as she is..

nonmember avatar taps

I do hope they do get back together n btdub ian didnt wanna marry that Japanese interview he said no marriage for the next 10 years bt if it wasnt meant to be it wasnt meant to be so ppl should just stop with the blame games

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