Kim Kardashian & Kanye West Have a Big Problem They Need to Work Out Now

kim kardashian and kanye westAlthough Kim Kardashian and Kanye West are similar in so many ways -- they love themselves more than life itself; they enjoy leather pants; they frequent gay Paree -- there is one way in which they're very different. Kim loves sharing every private detail of her life, where Kanye doesn't.

In a new interview with UK magazine Fabulous, Kim said: "I'm definitely more of a recluse since I was pregnant. But I haven't necessarily decided to hold myself back, it's just preparing myself for respecting the privacy of my child and my boyfriend. We live different lives, but I love being open. That's who I've always been. That will never change because that is who I am."

Now. While it's great for both parties of a couple retain their own, unique identity and not morph into one, boring blob, the whole "we live different lives" thing could be a problem. A big one, actually.

Valuing privacy and being an open book are two fundamental differences. Kim's entire life and livelihood is based on "being open", where Kanye's is not. (He may be a douche, but the man has actual talent.) If Kanye doesn't want his child and/or family to be a media spectacle, as Kim's entire life the past few years has been, that's going to be a problem. And vice versa -- if Kim wants to remain in the public eye, it's going to be a point of contention.

In relationships, it's good to have differences. There are few things more nauseating than when couples are exactly the same in every way. But when it comes to the big stuff -- the life stuff -- you should be on the same page. Because there's no way in hell that stuff isn't going to come around to bite your relationship in the ass. It literally is inevitable.

Kim and Kanye haven't been together for a long time, so I'm sure right now, they're all: "Oh, we'll figure it out. It'll be fine." But I'm speaking from experience here when I say: No, it won't. You need to get the big stuff out in the open and deal with it in the beginning. Otherwise, there's only one way the relationship can really go. And that's not good when a baby's involved.

Do you think Kim and Kanye will run into problems?

 

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nonmember avatar Gianna

FULL QUOTE “We live different lives, but I love being open. That’s who I’ve always been and sharing so much of myself – I love that. That’ll never change because that is who I am. It’s more about gearing up to protect other people.”

Why do all the site keep deleting the last sentence?

Gianna Markolus

“We live different lives, but I love being open. That’s who I’ve always been and sharing so much of myself – I love that. That’ll never change because that is who I am. It’s more about gearing up to protect other people.”

FULL QUOTE. Why are you twisting her words?

Venae Venae

Maybe he should have thought about this before he stuck his penis in her.

2inblue 2inblue

He knows she is a very open and always finding a way to be in the spotlight so if that's not what he wants, he should have never dated her or got her prego. Chris Humphries said the same thing but married her and look at how that ended. so sad but at the same time, these guys choose to be with her knowing who she is.

nonmember avatar DeeDee

once the novelty of this relationship has worn off; and they stop trying to be like Beyoncé & Jay-Z; they will realize that they are NOT right for each other. In the meantime, Kim be careful, Kanye has violent tendencies--he probably will be physically and verbally abusive.

SLA28 SLA28

Wait...what?  Do you actually think for half a second that these two will make it long term?  Are you out of your mind?  Each of them is completely incapable of loving anyone but themselves.  I feel sorry for the baby.  Two complete narcissists as parents -- it doesn't stand a chance.

pink_... pink_orchid

It seems to me that kanye is a very controlling person, Kim does everything that comes out of that guys mouth, He tells her how to dress she gets a whole new wardrobe he dosent want the kid on tv. She tells some magazine that the kid wont be on the show...yet he treats her like shit and he is never around when she is as pregnant as she is...

Suzanne Rosenorn

The biggest problem these two have is deciding who will be the biggest loser.shrugging

Rachael Billiot Hutcheson

Because Kim is only jump like boss up not follow Kayne list nothings. Kayne will leave of her because same like her ex-husband do that so Kayne got tired of her only boss too much and too much problem.. that why Kim is mess up this.

there... theresaphilly

Kanye knew Kim was a fame-whore before dealing with her. She won't change, either he needs to deal or leave. At least smile once in a while.

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