Porsha Stewart’s Divorce Sends Her Into a Shame Spiral But It Shouldn’t

porsha stewartOh Porsha Stewart -- finding out from Twitter your husband Kordell Stewart is dumping you. You poor thing. THAT just happened. Which means now you have to go on TV and talk about it, because that's your job.

What's it like to see your whole beautiful fairy-tale marriage come crashing down around you in such a big, splashy, public way? "I feel heartbroken and at times I feel ashamed," says Stewart.

Ashamed! Why? He's the one who should be ashamed. Kordell filed for divorce without telling Porsha, and then he couldn't even admit it to her face. Porsha says when she saw all the rumors flying on Twitter, she asked Kordell if they were true -- in a totally non-confrontational way, she says. "It was me simply asking my husband, 'Had you filed?' which seemed crazy coming out of my mouth."

Not so crazy, it turns out. He had filed on March 29, but he was too chicken shit to mention it to her, even then. "He said he thought about it and we’ll talk about it later and he left for work. I had to call my attorney to find out." Yeah. You know what? Everyone, I have an important announcement to make.

Kordell Stewart, YOU ARE OFFICIALLY NOT A REAL MAN.

But let's get back to Porsha. She says she feels ashamed sometimes because of the way she'd portrayed her marriage to the public. "Because I put myself out there to the world as a wife and I was proud to be married, and for it to end the way it did, it's almost like a failure in a way." Well, I can see that. On the other hand, I think Porsha should give herself some credit for being in that marriage 100 percent.

Like any NORMAL woman, Porsha also started wanting to become a more complete person. She loved being Kordell's wife, but she also wanted babies and a career. He was too selfish and immature to go there with her -- he wanted HIS fairy tale of a wife who lives just for him. Who knew? Men believe in fairy tales, too. I say, good riddance, Porsha. Kordell was too controlling anyway.

Do you think Porsha should feel ashamed about her divorce?

 

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Melan... MelanieJK

Where's the love?     This treatment of her reflects that it didn't exist.     How could she not have sensed that?     She might have been  working "100%" on broken limbs and a serious brain injury in the marriage but totally failed to notice that the heart had stopped beating.


He's just too callous and creepy for words.   

bills... billsfan1104

She should punch him in ball sack.

nonmember avatar Lea anne meers

Codell is a pos!..gutless creap!

Sarah Arista Gonzalez Barlupi

PORSHA SHOULD JUST KEEP ON WITH HER LIFE  WITHOUT HER HUSBAND . SHE'S A WONDERFUL EXAMPLE OF TODAY'S WOMEN THAT LOVE THEIR MEN TO THE FULLEST AND WANT A CAREER. GO ON WITH YOUR CAREER AND THE REST WILL FILL IN , JUST DON'T LOOK FOR IT. A MAN THATS A REAL MAN WILL BE THERE EVENTUALLY. YOUR SMART , BEAUTIFUL AND GO HEART. JUST MAKE SURE THE NEXT ONE IS NOT A LOOSER LIKE YOUR SOON TO BE EX! GOOD LUCK ! YOU WILL BE FINE .


 

Bobbi Jean

I understand how shame can be one of many emotions Porsha is feeling but I hope she has people in her life who will uplift and support her. She can be a wife and mother and find her place in the workforce. I'm not going to lie, she can be annoying, I think it's her voice! But she is a sweet girl who wants to be a good wife and mother while still having her own identity! A real man would be thrilled to have a woman like that, this divorce is a blessing!

Caroline Mullins Scarborough

Heck no, that's life. She is a very attractive young lady. She will have no problem finding a man. She is making her own money but still should get alimony. I think she will be better off in the long run anyway.

nonmember avatar ShoMeGurl

I think Kordell started watching the show and saw what a total controlling ass he came across as and how stupid his wife really is.

Robyn Kinne Neitzelt-Maslowski

I said this would happen to Porsha when I first saw Cordell on the show. You should never feel bad about your marriage your not the one who failed, Cordell failed and he is the biggest loser I have seen in a long time and that is not saying much. Count your blessings and go on with your life.

Barbara Panico

Porsha honey...your life will be so much better without that horse's ass.

Reali... Realityaddict

No, I think he married her to quiet the rumors of him being gay that have been circulating for many years

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