Kristen Stewart Caves to Robert Pattinson’s Demands Even Though It’s ‘Killing Her’

robert pattinsonGeez Louise, it's been almost nine months since Kristen Stewart was caught having a fling with her Snow White director, Rupert Sanders. Yet it sounds like Robert Pattinson is still not ready to trust her. A friend says Rob's demanding they spend less time with each other. And Kristen is complying. Supposedly, they're happier for it. But it's "killing her."

If it's "killing her", how happy can they really be? I guess Kristen is just happy they're back together at all. The source says, "She misses Robert when he’s not around, especially since he was recently in Australia filming The Rover for over two months, but she’s not pushing it." Smart girl, if she wants to hold onto this relationship. But maybe she should be looking deeper into Rob's demands.

I can see why Rob would want to take things slow. He was betrayed, in a huge, splashy, public way, too. So not only did she smash his heart into dozens of little shards, she also made him look like a total schmuck. Can't blame the guy for not wanting to give her another chance to betray him. It's always hard to trust the love of your life again after they've cheated on you.

But ... that's not what I see happening here. What I see happening (and please do leave a comment below telling me how wrong, wrong, WRONG! I am) is a man who wants to break up with his girlfriend but can't. She betrayed him, they had to get back together for the sake of the moooovie, she gave him those special feelings all over again, and now he's in a pickle. He wants to move on with a more mature woman who won't be easily seduced by her not-even-hot director. But!

But he can tell Kristen's really sorry and loves him, so he can't bring himself to just dump her. So he's dragging this relationship out and it'll suffer the death of a thousand cuts. In other words, the classic long, drawn-out, passive-aggressive breakup wherein the guy ultimately gets to walk away still feeling like the good guy even though he basically forced his girlfriend to lose patience with him and break up with him.

Put her out of her misery, Rob! Just end it, if you're not in it to win it.

Do you think Rob's trying to take things slow, or is this a passive-aggressive breakup?

 

Image via Pacific Coast News

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nonmember avatar Becca

I think you make a good point. I definitely think Rob was forced to connect with Stewart again, because the movie was coming out. They had to deal with the fact that they would be in each others company, if nothing else and it all had to happen very quickly. There was no time to heal and get over the problems gradually. They were thrust back into the limelight together. Rob seems to be spending a lot of time with friends and not Stewart, he also appears to be living at his home. He never looks close or comfortable with her when they are together, I just think he's over it. Robs such a nice guy I can't see him wanting to hurt her, so I agree with your theory. I'd say they'll stay friends though. Possibly.

JoAnn Hedrick

I think that they need to just be let it alone. The reporters hound them and if they can't find anything negative they'll make it up. If Rob is jerking her chain then shame on Rob. Be adults and handle it

nonmember avatar kris

I think you should just stay out of their personal lives. You never get it right anyway! They don't want you to know so you aren't going to know! They both have admitted to doing and saying things to the papz just to get a reaction. They have also said you all make up stories anyway so it doesn't matter what they do or say!

Michale Burch Hess

She never CHEATED on Rob. The people at US and People said those were photo shop pictures. They were really Kristen at all. So please stop saying SHE CHEATED BECAUSE SHE NEVER DID!!!!!shouting

Sarah Brown

I think that he is an "absence makes the heart grow fonder" kind of guy.  If they don't smoother one another then when they are together it's hotter than ever.  I think he's trying to keep that fire burning with the space between them.  Plus he can breathe free and do what he wants and not feel nagged.  He's not quite ready to trust her with his heart, but he also don't want to have a full-time thing going.   Also, the press needs to butt out and leave these two do whatever they're going to do or it's going to be over due to all the stress and hype.

nonmember avatar monica

he is taking things slow for goodness sake how long were they together before the cheating scandal i mean really he loves her and he is trying to make sure she is as serious as he is and that she loves him too !! :)

Amanda Davis

I think rob sould go back to kristen everyone mess up and she sound like she really sorry. and they sould be together not just because of the movie.

Honey Noreen

I want them back together like before..coz they look amazing as couple..I just love robsten!!!

Rachel Garber

I think he gave in to her wanting to get back with him; is it true that she texted him a lot? Maybe he thought he would give her a chance, maybe felt sorry for her, probably is still in love with her, yet not able to completely trust her. Sorry, I know some people think he should forgive her. I don't; it would be different if she had had the affair on the set, and she told him, but ended it. Sorry, the picture wrapped, she returned to the house they were sharing. Went to a gym, Sanders texts her, she turns around and meets him? Then what, she was going to return to their home and bed, ewww. Would she have ever told him if she hadn't been caught? And her sorry excuse, momentary indiscretion. The person I most respect? Really, and so you cheated on the person you respect the most in the world. Maybe he went back to her because he felt pressured, she meets him at the airport, maybe he just didn't have the heart to say "get lost" She should not have pushed him when he returned from Australia. Sorry, I have no sympathy for her, if it bothers her so much, break it off.

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