'Downton Abbey' Season 3 Recap: Unbearable Tragedy Strikes (VIDEO)

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downton abbey season 3 episode 4To quote the Dowager Countess, "Nothing is as bad as this." It was her most memorable line of the episode. But this line was uttered out of agony, and I'd take a million of her barbs over that. Did you ever think you would see Violet crumple in tears? That was one of the most heartbreaking moments in this episode.

If you haven't seen this one yet, stop right here. MAJOR SPOILER ALERT. Oh my God, this episode was almost too much. So horribly tragic -- and so infuriating.

***WARNING: SPOILERS AHEAD***

You saw this coming with Sybil, right? From the moment Sir Philip arrives on the scene, with his title and all that toff brotherhood between him and Grantham. Sybil was pretty much sacrificed on the altar of England's dysfunctional class system. Sir Philip breezes in, and Grantham immediately prefers him over the family physician, Dr. Clarkson. Oh sure, Clarkson's been wrong before -- but he knows his patients, and his vision isn't clouded with smug arrogance.

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Grantham and Sir Philip are infuriating. But the misery over Sybil's death by eclampsia shortly after the birth of her daughter runs even deeper for the family. And what a horrible death it was -- from the scary labor down to the convulsions at the end. The kindest, most loving person in the Crawley family had an unjustly wretched end.

She was mourned upstairs and downstairs -- even scheming Thomas weeps for her! Even he was touched by her egalitarian love for her fellow beings. Sybil leaves such a legacy behind. I hope it's honored by her family.

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I have hope that it will be through Cora. Just before Sybil dies, she begs Cora to fight for Tom and the baby. After she passes, Cora passionately but quietly pledges to her daughter, "We'll look after them both, don't you worry about that." And then she calls Sybil her baby and I completely lose it.

Well, Grantham is in for it. He began the episode by insulting Edith's intelligence. She's offered a column and he dismisses the offer, saying the paper just wants her title. Matthew has discovered that he's mismanaged the estate and suspects Grantham considers being businesslike is too "mean" and "middle-class" for the Lord. And then Grantham takes the authority of an aristocratic doctor over his own family doctors -- to the peril of his daughter. Cora kicks him out of bed and I think it'll take a lot for him to work his way back into their bedroom. He knows he was wrong. I think he's horrified, too, and feels guilty at his mistake.

Meanwhile, a few other things happened in this episode. Anna's found proof of Bates' innocence and is working with the lawyer. But will Bates be too corrupted by prison by the time they get him out?

Poor Ethel, newly rescued from prostitution by Isobel Crawley and hired as maid and cook, is struggling. Did you see last week's episode, when she gave up her baby to the father's family? Poor Ethel! I see why she did it, but it still pained me to see her send her baby off like that. Now no one else wants to work under the same roof with a fallen woman, so she's doubly screwed. She's a terrible cook. Who knows how long Isobel charity will wear. (An aside: Somehow I got it into my head that Matthew's mother is named Colleen. Don't know where the hell that came from!)

Oh yeah -- and did you catch Matthew asking the doctor if he thinks that bruised spine he suffered might, er, you know, affect his ffffertility? I see a plot point coming: Matthew and Mary cannot have a baby. Will they fight Branson to take in Sybil's as their own? What happens when Branson insists on baptizing the baby as a (shudder!) Catholic? Will Cora fight for that -- and will it widen the rift between her and Grantham?

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Do you think Sybil's death has irreparably damaged Grantham and Cora's relationship?

 

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