Jack Nicholson May Have Slept With 2,000 Women - Talk About a Deal-Breaker

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Jack NicholsonJack Nicholson may be old now, but back in the day he was rumored to be quite the ladies man. He was SUCH a ladies man that some have put his "body count" up around 2,000 women. He's no Wilt Chamberlain, but that's a lot of action there. Maybe for some women, that would be hot (who are these women?), but for most, that would be one giant deal-breaker.

Jack Nicholson may be sexy, but that's WAY too many women. It's just gross.

It always seems like women are the ones who get "slut shamed," but it's also true of men. Personally, I would question a man who had been with too many women every bit as much as some people claim to question women. It says something about how much they value sex.

Call me crazy, old-fashioned, or even a member of the "slut police," but I don't like the idea of being with a man for whom sex is just a bodily function. To me, 2,000 women just means he was a male whore. And oh yes, that exists.

Look, people can do whatever they want with their bodies, and I am all for enjoying sex and even having more than one partner just to figure out what you want and need. But I draw the line at four figures. Call me a prude. Who needs that many partners?

If you have slept with everyone your partner has slept with, that's a whole lot of exposure. But it's not just about diseases. There are other factors, too.

A man who has been with that many women starts to lose track, starts to devalue sex, and generally isn't a great candidate for long-term marriage. Obviously, there are exceptions and people who like sex and recovering sex addicts and on and on. It's not the be all, end all and may not be a "deal-breaker."

But it's something to consider. Personally, I don't like this idea that only women need to worry about their "number." It's just as alarming if a man has a high one, too. Would I dump him for it? No. But it would raise a lot of questions.

Do you ask about past lovers?

 

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ethan... ethans_momma06

You seem to have a lot of assumptions about what sex is to these people who have high numbers of sexual parteners. So I have to ask- how do you know that? How do you know how he (or anyone with that #) views those expiriences?


If that number is to high for you, whatever. Don't sleep with that many people. I'm failing to see the actual issue here.

dirti... dirtiekittie

i like how you say that it's a person's own body and they can do how they please - but then you go on and on about how you don't like it. if you don't like it, don't sleep with 2000 people. and don't marry a man who's slept with 2000 people. you see articles about how women shouldn't feel shame about their number, and it doesn't matter, and yada yada... so that just makes it hypocritical to turn the tables on a man. nobody's number should matter to anyone but themselves. and don't assume you know how someone else views or experiences sex, either. just because 2000 implicates someone who only views sex as a "bodily act" (which, it is) and not marriage material to YOU, doesn't mean everyone else feels the same.


also, he's jack nicholson. he'll be sexy til the day he dies.

nonmember avatar JJ

a guy who's slept with 2000 women doesn't care what you think, because he'll bed 10-15 girls much hotter and younger than you by the end of the month.

nonmember avatar aa

Wtf is JJ on about? lmfao chill dude she's not talkin bout you no need to get all defensive lol. anyway i somewhat know what this article says. i used to be quite slutty but i realised its kinda pointless and at the end of the day its quality over quantity for sure. however you gotta love Jackie boy. while hes clearly not an attractive man at all he managed to seduce that many women. so you know what -good on him :)

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