The Robert Pattinson-Kristen Stewart rumor mill keeps on churnin' out updates on the couples' rumored reunion! The latest: Apparently, a "source" says Rob has told Kristen that the only way he can forgive her for the affair is if she "truly commits to him." As in, she marries him. Yup, "he is desperate to make it work and wants to give her another chance but not unless she proves she really wants it too." Ouch. And getting hitched is the only way to do that, I guess?
Well, I suppose it was only a matter of time before someone dropped the "M" word again. After all, just before news of the affair broke, we were surmising what a Robsten wedding might look like! But that feels like it was many, many moons ago. This post-affair world is a whole different, far less frilly and innocent ballgame. Still, how utterly unromantic is it that Rob might be issuing an ultimatum?!
When I was waiting for my now-fiance, then-boyfriend to pop the question, some people definitely advised that I give him an ultimatum. But that was pretty much the last thing I wanted to do. Who wants to get engaged knowing that perhaps the only reason your partner is saying "I do" is because you threatened to leave? Doesn't exactly seem like the healthiest way to begin a new chapter of your relationship.
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Then again, if this is true, if Kristen truly betrayed his trust, I could see why Rob may need more than just an apology and a promise never to do it again. He wants a ring on it, and maybe he feels like that may be the only way to take their relationship to the next level and, well, prevent another incident of infidelity. But remember when Aidan tried to do that to prevent Carrie from straying with Big again?? Can you say backfire?!
If the rumors are true, perhaps the best thing for these two would be to commit ... to couples' therapy! Seems like that might be a much healthier, far less extreme and risky way to rebuild trust than getting engaged. Not to mention that it's a must-do before walking down the aisle!
Do you think these two should get engaged anytime soon? How do you feel about ultimatums?
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if she truly loves him then there should b no problem. they are a gorgeous couple i would love to c it work, but if she isnt ready to commit tht deep, then she just isnt ready. i think the public and magazines reporters, should just leave them alone and let them figure "their" life out!!
They are so perfect together! I can't believe she did that to him!!!!! She better beg for his forgivness and do what ever he asks if she truly loves him!
no not really i dont think they should get married that wont stop no one from cheating if they going to do it married or not
People should mind their own business! This includes all magazines, tabloids,etc., Yes, that means all, not just a few. People need to keep to their own P's & q's in life and let them sort out their own issues! We don't have to live this lifestyle, they do, so back off and let them make their own mistakes. And this also goes out to any interviews with big celebrities and talk show hosts,too....why should you be excluded?
In all honesty...I really don't think they need to be together.They were together since Twilight and in that time if she hasn't figured out how he felt about cheating then she doesn't know him.Besides if you can't shout from the roof tops that you are with Robert Pattinson honestly,you don't need to be with him.I get that it is a prvacy issue but you are obviously not that private when you are caught out canoodling and messing around with your married director.
Committed in a relationship means you don't go astray, you focus on the relationship, be loyal, you put your heart on it. Not necessarily means marriage or an ultimatum.. When both persons agreeing to commit you show to the person you are real to this relationship. If both parties, feel comfortable to have a life together, then marriage is in the picture.