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'Teen Mom' Recap: Ryan Needs to Get With the Educational Program

by Sasha Brown-Worsham on July 17, 2012 at 11:37 PM

Maci BookoutThe final season of Teen Mom is easily the most emotional of the past ones. As we get deeper into the lives of Farrah, Amber, Maci, and Catelynn, it's clear that life after teen pregnancy is never simple.

Farrah is struggling to deal with her mother, and as hard as it is, it's impressive that Farrah wants so much to do the best thing for her daughter and tolerate an ever difficult relationship just so she can have a grandmother. Her mother isn't easy and it isn't hard to see why both Farrah and Ashley (her sister) struggle to have a relationship with her.

Meanwhile Amber made a good decision regarding rehab. She wanted to leave, but made the (wise) decision to stay a little longer. And even though we are all aware of how it turns out for Amber in the end, it's still good that she is at least trying.

The main emotional crux of the evening belonged to Maci, though. It was her pre-school struggle with Ryan and the heartbreaking cries of Bentley that earned tonight’s Teen Mom tears (I cry every show).

Seriously, as a mom, the WORST sound in the world is your baby crying when you leave him at camp or school or any kind of day care situation. Sure, they are always OK five minutes later, but that doesn't make it any easier. When my kids cry, I cry. It’s awful. I feel for Maci.

I felt for Maci in other ways, too. Parenting with Ryan has never been a picnic, but his attitude about pre-school is positively archaic. “My kid don’t need pre-school. I didn't have it,” is more or less what he says. Maci shouldn't have to point out the countless studies that prove pre-school is VERY needed, especially for at-risk children like Bentley who are born to unwed teen parents.

Certainly if Bentley is to have any kind of economic and educational advantage, he needs pre-school. Good for his mom for looking out for him in the best way possible. But shame on Ryan.

I have always defended Ryan and I think he loves his son, but he is SO wrong on this front. Kids need pre-school and study after study has proven that. Bentley will gain so much from pre-school.

Poor Maci shouldn't have to fight Ryan so much on EVERYTHING. Judging from previews it looks like it might even get worse. He wants joint custody now? Usually I think joint custody is a better option, but in this case, I am not so sure. How is he really looking out for his son?

Do you think Ryan is wrong about pre-school?

 

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  • Bubbl...
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    Bubbles318

    July 17, 2012 at 11:56 PM

    I think he's wrong and I think his mother was wrong for saying that Bentley doesn't need it. "Preschool is for when kids are like, 4. Not two-and-a-half." They should be more accepting of doing things FOR Bentley. That frustrated me! 


  • mommy...
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    mommy2annaliese

    July 18, 2012 at 12:07 AM

    Ryan is a dumbass and so is his new girlfriend. Did you see her smiling and twirling her hair everytime he said something rude regaurding macy or what she wanted, or how she seems to purposly look at the camera and smile and stuff? She's super ugly and fake looking. WHY would anyone date him is what i want to know...


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    Elaine Cox

    July 18, 2012 at 12:11 AM

    Her mother is not easy and it is not hard to see why both Farrah and Ashley (her sister) struggle to have a relationship with her.

    You do know farrah and ashley are no walks in the parks


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    Noa

    July 18, 2012 at 12:12 AM
    Judging by the way he said "my kid don't need it, I didn't have it," I think he needed it if he doesn't have proper grammar skills. Basically, in my eyes, his double negative means he thought Bentley did need it.
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    Elaine Cox

    July 18, 2012 at 12:16 AM

    WHY would anyone date him is what i want to know...

    so you are attacking the one who dates him but not the one who got knocked up by him?


  • magen...
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    magenta8200

    July 18, 2012 at 12:27 AM
    I'm a DirecTV customer and lost MTV :( Is there anywhere online I can watch the episode?
  • Lucre...
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    LucretiaMcEvil

    July 18, 2012 at 12:47 AM
    You cry every episode? That's ridiculous.
  • vlk_2012
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    vlk_2012

    July 18, 2012 at 12:55 AM

    I've never liked Ryan. It just always seems like everytime it's his turn with Bentley, he's off filming at a restaurant trash talking Maci with his friends instead. I'm sure he loves his child, but he seems to love making things hard for Maci, too.

    In other news, Farrah is a bitch. I tried and tried and tried to understand where she was coming from. I will say that her mom does need to cut the cord, because Farrah has obviously ripped through hers with a chainsaw. All I know is what I see on the show, and if it's anything like that in real life then I feel so sorry for her parents.


  • MOMMY...
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    MOMMY2ACR

    July 18, 2012 at 3:11 AM
    I thought Ryan and his mom were wrong. His mom just works my nerves though. To me it seems like she enjoys seeing Ryan make things difficult with Maci. Like when she asked if he'll get to make up the day he misses with Ryan while he's I. Preschool...I'm pretty sure he'll be in school on maci's time too. His mom seems to be more worried about who wins more time with bentley than she is about bentleys well being.
  • LynBoz
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    LynBoz

    July 18, 2012 at 3:42 AM
    I think his mom wants 50/50 custody, not Ryan. I agree with mommy2annaliese, his new girl friend was ridiculously annoying. It was like she enjoyed him being an ass to Maci.
    I do not agree with the way Farrah treats her mother. Yes, her mom is a nut job but Farrah relies on them to much. She needs to decide if she wants them in her and Sophias life or not. It seems like she just uses her parents and then when they are of no use to her she's an uber bitch.
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