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Anderson Cooper Is Gay & 'Proud' & So Are We

by Kiri Blakeley on July 2, 2012 at 12:31 PM

Anderson CooperSeveral years ago, I was appearing on a TV show. I entered the makeup room where Anderson Cooper, who was also appearing on the show, had just left. The makeup woman said to me, "Anderson Cooper was just here. He's gay, you know?!" Well, I didn't know. And I had no idea how she knew, unless they discussed it over applying pancake makeup. But since then, I've followed the "Is he or isn't he?" speculation in the press, and how Anderson would dodge the question when asked outright. But no longer. Anderson has finally "come out." He wrote in an email to The Daily Beast columnist Andrew Sullivan:

The fact is, I'm gay, always have been, always will be, and I couldn’t be any more happy, comfortable with myself, and proud.

I understand why Anderson chose not to go public for so long. But I'm glad he finally did.

As a journalist, Anderson was required to travel to different countries, and not all cultures are as tolerant of homosexuality as America is. And we're not even that tolerant. Anderson has said that he felt he needed to be able to fit in to different societies and cultures and to be thought of as only a journalist. That makes total sense.

However, as the years wore on, it just began to seem kind of silly. Anderson became more well-known, and he began to deal with more issues revolving around gay marriage and gay bullying on his shows. It started to become odd watching him question people about the hot-button gay issues of the day without revealing his own orientation.

But, as Anderson says, it started to bother him because he felt that his silence was being equated with shame. He wrote:

It’s become clear to me that by remaining silent on certain aspects of my personal life for so long, I have given some the mistaken impression that I am trying to hide something -- something that makes me uncomfortable, ashamed, or even afraid.

He also said he wished that a person's sexuality was not an issue at all. I agree with that. But it is only by people like Anderson being out and proud that the veil of secrecy is finally lifted, that it becomes a non-issue. No longer will anyone gossip about Anderson in the makeup chair.

Do you think Anderson needed to come out?

 

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  • Exp
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    Exp

    July 2, 2012 at 12:39 PM
    One on hand, good for him. On the other, I just thought it was assumed by most people he was already.
  • Maevelyn
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    Maevelyn

    July 2, 2012 at 12:40 PM

    I see why he didn't want to "come out/" Anderson is a more professional journalist then other talk show hosts and as a journalist you aren't supposed to belong to one side or the other. When you have an allegiance, gay, straight, christian, atheist, republican, democrat ect. it becomes difficult for people not to assign that label to whatever you're reporting. Gay or straight shouldn't be an issue but it is and he's been realistic enough to know saying "I'm gay but that doesn't change anything" isn't a shield against the way the world works. 


  • mustb...
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    mustbeGRACE

    July 2, 2012 at 12:41 PM

    I guess this means his ratings are finally the lowest they've ever been?


  • Eliza...
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    Elizabeth Burke

    July 2, 2012 at 12:50 PM

    I love him and am glad he came out.  But it was his decision and I totaly support his reasoning as his life could have been endangered.  A world without the Silver fox is no world for me.

     


  • Freela
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    Freela

    July 2, 2012 at 12:54 PM

    I thought he was already out, honestly.


  • Kiki1212
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    Kiki1212

    July 2, 2012 at 1:52 PM
    Anderson Cooper is gay , the sky is blue, this is not news people!
  • bills...
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    billsfan1104

    July 2, 2012 at 1:52 PM
    I thought he came out already. Because I thought Kathy Griffin was always joking about.
  • poppy...
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    poppymuffin

    July 2, 2012 at 2:15 PM

    That't too bad, he would have been a good catch otherwise.

    LOL mustbeGRACE.


  • Valé...
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    Valéria Ščerbová

    July 2, 2012 at 2:32 PM

    i think everbody knew but good for him he came out....anyway i still think it´s a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge waste :))) he is handsome :)))


  • Wendy...
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    Wendy Carruthers Taylor

    July 2, 2012 at 2:47 PM

    I've always liked his shows (360 and Anderson) and respected him as a journalist, and I agree with him that this is or should be a non-issue. 

    And I don't understand where the "grace" is in "mustbeGRACE"'s comment???


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