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'Real Housewives of New Jersey' Recap: Teresa Giudice Makes Nice With Her Family for All the Wrong Reasons

by Julie Ryan Evans on June 25, 2012 at 12:51 AM

Joe Gorga and Teresa GiudiceOn the surface, Teresa Giudice was all forgiveness and goodwill when it came to her family tonight on The Real Housewives of New Jersey. She called up Kathy Wakile to have lunch and catch up; she caved and said she'd go to therapy with Joe Gorga; and she even forgave Melissa Gorga.

Some big steps for sure, but the reason she was making them was suspect at best. All of her niceties were more like a completely obvious and desperate attempt to keep at least someone in corner after she offended and alienated her very last (and very faithful) friend -- Jacqueline Laurita.

She needed someone on her side, so it was back to the family she's begrudged for so long. Kathy realized it right away. "Ding, ding, ding!" indeed.

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I suppose that's what family is for to some extent -- to always be there for you -- but you can only attack them so many times before even they don't want you. Also, Teresa's actions tonight felt so fake and self-serving that you have to wonder if the real problems will be addressed. For example, though Teresa agreed to go to therapy, she told the cameras she's going with hopes that her brother will realize HE has a problem. Sigh. 

She virtually no self awareness, evidenced especially well toward the end when she said that everyone else has changed, but she's remained the same ... well, except she's become more understanding. Uh huh.

At least Jacqueline finally saw through her bullsh*t. You could tell that after days of crying over their big blow up, Jacqueline was really hoping to smooth things over. Then Teresa started attacking her and twisting things, and Jacqueline finally had it. "F*ck you!" she told her. "Now I see why everyone f*cking hates her," she told her husband.

Meanwhile, Teresa told the cameras that Jacqueline is a "psycho bitch"and that she should have punched her in the face.

Melissa was gracious, and even though she saw through Teresa's motivation, still said they'd be there for her no matter what. That's pretty darn big of her, as was admitting she was wrong in the whole Danielle Staub drama from two years ago. Teresa said she was going to forgive her, but of course, didn't apologize for anything she'd done. I loved the look on her face when Melissa told, "Just be normal." Tall order there for Teresa, I think. I can't wait to see what the therapist thinks of her next week.

Maybe Teresa's motivation for making nice doesn't matter as much as the end result. If she can successfully reunite with her family, that would be great for Teresa, but more importantly, for her kids. I fear, however, that the chances of any kind of peace actually lasting are about as low as Juicy Joe's class.

Do you think a reconciliation between Teresa and Joe and Melissa Gorga will last?

 

Image via Bravo

 

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  • Nancy...
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    Nancy Sorice

    June 25, 2012 at 1:01 AM

    Yes, I think it will! Family is very important to Teresa. When it comes to family, no matter what,good or bad, your brother will always be there for you. It is also healthy for the children too to be all together growing up! 


  • Justa...
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    Justamom283

    June 25, 2012 at 1:10 AM
    I think it will last until someone (I'm thinking Teresa) will start with you can't be friends with them and a good sister in law or brother to me. As far a Teresa is concerned her hurt is worse than everyone else's and if you don't take "her side" you're disloyal. I hate to see this happening and to think the worse of Tre but I miss the girl from season 1. Friendship divorces are a sad sad thing.
  • PAULA
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    PAULA

    June 25, 2012 at 1:16 AM
    NO, I don't think it will last. She talks crap about everyone but no one is supposed to say anything negative about her. EVERYTHING is about her. And she needs to wear her hair with bangs to hide that monkey hair line!!!
  • Dee...
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    Dee Knowlton

    June 25, 2012 at 1:19 AM

    She is a snake just waiting 2 ponce.She goes where ever she can to look like she is a good person,huh!She  will not B able 2 share the lime light with Melissa,she is going to b way 2 jealous.Now she knows the others have found her out & they r done standing by her lies & her hatefulness so well now she will have her family,but it won't last.She loves no one but herself,she is very selffess & sooner or later she will bite her sister in law & all the rest!!Keep watching,u will all c.


  • jen
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    jen

    June 25, 2012 at 2:21 AM
    Theresa is a selfish bitch. Jacqueline was the only one left in her corner, and she even managed to drive her away. Pretty sad. I feel that the fammily united will be a short one, since she is so full of herself. It will be another blowup again. I miss the early seasons with Caroline, Jacqueline , Dina & eddie munster forehead Teresa, husband is a piece of shit
  • kikitice
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    kikitice

    June 25, 2012 at 2:47 AM

    It didn't last. I saw Melissa on Bravo's WWHL and she said they weren't talking. The chick and her husband are on a planet that doesn't include the rest of us or logic.


  • loves...
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    lovesouldoula

    June 25, 2012 at 3:28 AM
    I think Theresa is just too far gone. It really is sad to watch. She has some personality disorder, for sure. And Juicy Joe's only problem is that he is a moron with jerk off tendencies. Oh yeah, and that he's married to Theresa. I feel bad for her kids. Melissa and Joe Gorga are so good to her,you can tell they are good people. But poor Theresa has completely fell off the deep end. I think what they need to do is give Theresa some time off, you know, like, permanently. While they're at it they should make like New York and get a new cast. This whole thing is just too painful to watch and is, quite honestly, getting really boring.
  • Holly...
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    Holly Sweet-Steves

    June 25, 2012 at 8:00 AM

    Ratings people! Thats all it is. They will do and say anything to keep you coming back.


  • Loredana
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    Loredana

    June 25, 2012 at 8:49 AM
    I think that Jacqueline Laurita has mental problems. Teresa Giudice must shave her ''monkey's hair line''. Caroline Manzo is going through menopouse. Her daughter got fat surgery....her sons don't have a job....thats why they are on the show all the time.Dina stays away from Caroline....because she's evil.
  • Kai
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    Kai

    June 25, 2012 at 11:22 AM
    Teresa is the psycho bitch. Please take her and her gross husband and unruly kids off the show. While your at it please remove these other psycho housewives: Alexis Belleno, Ramona Singer and everybody from the Atlanta show.
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