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Amber Portwood Deserves More Respect for Choosing Jail

by Sasha Brown-Worsham on June 11, 2012 at 1:35 PM

Amber PortwoodShe is the "star" of MTV's Teen Mom, but that didn't save Amber Portwood from a five-year prison sentence she started serving last week. It seems insane that anyone would choose prison over the opportunity to go to rehab and do outpatient work, but in many ways, her decision makes perfect sense. Portwood wasn't doing well on the outside. Maybe five years of prison will change that.

She chose prison for a reason. She told ABC News she plans to really change her life. She wants to get her GED, do some counseling, kick the drug habit, and really turn herself around. She can't do that on the outside. So fine.

It doesn't seem selfish at all. It seems like maybe for the first time Amber is wanting to pay real consequences and get her head on straight. So why is everyone on her case?

Of course Leah will be sad, but she would also be sad with a mother addicted to pain pills and miserable without an education.

If Amber needs time to focus on herself and meeting some of her goals and getting herself straight, who are we to argue with her methods? I think it's a brave and good decision. She is making it not just for herself, but also for Leah.

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While Leah waits for Amber, she is in good hands. She has her dad and Gary, for all his faults, does do his best. She is better off with a mom who is trying than a mom who is strung out.

Amber was too young to become a mom and she is doing her best with a poor situation. She is doing her best for her child to become a mom she can be proud of. Sure, it might make more sense to us to do outpatient drug treatment, but jail makes sense to her and it's really only Portwood's feelings that matter.

Good for her for recognizing the problem and having the balls to pay for it with her life. She isn't taking it lightly and I would think most of us should be able to respect that.

I hope in five years, she comes out with an education and a new lease on life and motherhood. I believe it's possible.

Do you think Amber is right to go to jail?

 

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  • Melody
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    Melody

    June 11, 2012 at 1:47 PM
    I don't think 5yrs of incarceration is what Amber needs. She needs court-required inpatient residential treatment for both her sa issues and mental health issues. Sadly she will not get what she needs while incarcerated because our judicial system, specifically our dpt of corrections doesn't offer intense therapies.
  • JeniN...
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    JeniNicole83

    June 11, 2012 at 2:11 PM
    Inpatient treatment would be best. Out patient and prison is not the best choice. You dont learn anything helpful in prison, the outside will be the same. Just because you are sober those couple of years in prison you won't learn what you need to function outside. Even the rehab prisons do not help.
  • Prett...
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    PrettyGirlMyers

    June 11, 2012 at 2:14 PM

    This girl deserves zero respect. Because of her poor life choices her daughter will be without a mother for FIVE YEARS, and when she gets released she will be a convicted felon for the rest of her life. Where exactly is the respect in that?????


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    LoganTroyMom

    June 11, 2012 at 3:09 PM
    she will be out in no more than 3 1/2 yrs with good behavior. while i think she should have done rehab, its not like she ran off to party. prison is no picnic. she's better than jenelle at least (whom only went to rehab as a ruse, cmon now)
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    Lindsey Willson

    June 11, 2012 at 3:26 PM
    she chose jail because she wanted to take the easy way out, i am enrolled in the drug court program in another state, and the truth is the program is not for someone who is not interested in making a change in their lives and apparently shes not willing to make that change right now, the one anybody should feel sorry for right now is her daughter, she gets no sympathy from me at all
  • nessie
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    nessie

    June 12, 2012 at 10:06 AM
    No, she took the selfish easy option and I have zero respect for her. If she wasn't ready to be a mother (which she clearly isn't), she should have had an abortion. Instead, her child has to suffer.
  • sssim...
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    sssimplysssarah

    June 12, 2012 at 1:15 PM
    Totally agree w the last few posts...this is selfish of her. First of all, there are tons of drugs jail; a very high percentage of inmates develop an addiction by the time they are released, even if they started off clean. Second, even if she does manage to detox there cause she won't have her connects, she could very easily relapse once she gets released. Yes, detox is difficult, but you're an addict for life even after you've kicked the habit, and it's maintaining sobriety that's the real challenge. She doesn't just need to stop using drugs for today, next week, or next year, she needs to learn how to resist temptation forever, which she won't do by being locked up and "forced" to stop.
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