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Prison May Be Just What 'Teen Mom' Amber Portwood Needs

by Julie Ryan Evans on May 24, 2012 at 11:44 PM

Amber PortwoodIt looks like Teen Mom Amber Portwood has finally hit rock bottom, and it may be for the best. Time and time again we've seen her make horrifically irresponsible choices, then make them again. Most frustrating has been the fact that she refuses to take any responsibility for her actions and always seems to have an excuse or someone to blame. Today, however, it seems that she's run out of excuses and is ready to take whatever blame may come as she flat out asked a judge to send her to prison for five years.

Back in January, she was given a five-year prison sentence for drug possession, but the judge told her if she completed a drug rehab program she could avoid the time behind bars. Today, according to TMZ, she told the judge she hadn't been following the rules of the rehab program since the beginning and that she will always be a "bad girl."

Then, as her attorney stood by reportedly stunned, she asked to be locked up again, and she was. She'll stay in jail for the next few weeks until her sentencing.

As much as she raises people's ire, your heart has to break to see to see someone that broken down and clearly at the mercy of an addiction. I don't know if prison will help her or if it's best for her daughter, Leah, but she's running out of options. It feels desperate, but that's just what her situation is.

In her short life, she's been through so much already, but perhaps this is the rock bottom she needs to hit in order to climb her way back out of the mess she's made of her life. Maybe time away from the spotlight and time to evaluate her life will help her set her priorities so that she can emerge a stronger person. Maybe she needs a harsh reality check. While I'm not naive enough to think there are no drugs in prisons, I'd like to think it might be easier for her to stay sober behind bars too.

Some may say she's abandoning her daughter because she's not strong enough to commit to rehab, but given the shape she's in, this could just be one of the best decisions she's ever made for her and her daughter. At least we can hope so.

Do you think prison is the right place for Amber Portwood?

 

 

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  • Disney17
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    Disney17

    May 25, 2012 at 2:19 AM
    The best rehab is jail.
  • Heath...
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    HeatherMazzone

    May 25, 2012 at 7:55 AM
    ^true
  • noneya79
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    noneya79

    May 25, 2012 at 9:20 AM

    I do feel that jail can clean a person up and change their life, but at the same time, I feel strongly that her daughter is paying for this (as much so as her mother being a drug addict). Amber is always going to have the reputation of the teen mom who was a drug user and couldn't clean her act up, now she's adding prison to her list. PRISON, not jail, PRISON. That will go on her record for the rest of her life and follow her everywhere she goes. And honestly, I have known people who've made it to FEDERAL prison for drug problems, and they came out still with drug problems. They learned how to hide it better and they met more connections while there. If she really cared about herself and her poor daughter, she would have committed herself to a rehab and would have stuck it out for the recommended time. Then she'd quit associating herself with the people she knows that do drugs. Everyone has choices, and the choices we make reflect not only on us, but on the ones we love as well. It's important as parents to make good decisions for ourselves because we don't just have ourselves to think about, we have our children! Amber clearly shows no signs of caring about her daughter if she'd rather sit in prison than complete a rehab program and straighten her life out. She'd rather someone else take on the responsibility of raising her child while she takes the low road to prison. I have no respect for her at all!


  • Bri
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    Bri

    May 25, 2012 at 9:42 AM
    I think this was a good decision on her half, and that she will learn a valuable lesson from it.
  • 2love
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    2love

    May 25, 2012 at 10:08 AM
    Maybe she doesn't want her daughter exposed to her while she's going through this drug situation. It can always go both ways. Either way she really didn't get that great of a start in the first place .not that it's a excuse of any kind because I was a teen mom that made the bad choice of marrying a abusive man so my start wasn't all that great...but maybe she thinks prison will straighten her out... it's time for her to be accountable. I feel so bad for her because everything she does is magnified by the media.
  • Angel...
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    Angela McAvoy

    May 25, 2012 at 10:17 AM

    I agree, noneya79. I don't watch the show, but I have heard about this girl several times. In my opinion, that child should have been taken away from her already. When I was younger, I was addicted to meth really bad, but when I found out I was pregnant with my first daughter, I stopped. I cut all the drug people out of my life and haven't look back since. I didn't want to grow up bc I was only 19, but I did bc I had to. I was responsible for another life, and I wasn't going to ruin hers like I had mine. She is turing 9 this year, and I have been clean for the whole time, plus the time I was pregnant with her. I had dropped out of school, but sice then I have gone back for my GED and am currently in school working towards my medical assistant degree. We all have choices to make that will affect the rest of our lives, and she made all the wrong ones, and now that poor little girl will know her mommy was a drug addicted looser that wouldn't take care of her. I have no respect whatsoever for Amber, but my heart goes out to that little baby.


  • lisa
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    lisa

    May 25, 2012 at 10:25 AM
    My heart breaks for her daughter because shes the one that has to go through life knowing what her mother has done. I know from experience because my mother is a drug addict and i had to grow up fast and basically raise myself knowing what my mother was doing. Amber needs to stop making excuses because her drug habbit is no ones fault but her own. She really needs to get a grip on reality and realize what this is doing to her daughter! She had better hope and pray to God that her daughter doesnt grow up to hate her cause she chose drugs over being a mother. Amber seriously needs some professional help!
  • lisa
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    lisa

    May 25, 2012 at 10:25 AM
    My heart breaks for her daughter because shes the one that has to go through life knowing what her mother has done. I know from experience because my mother is a drug addict and i had to grow up fast and basically raise myself knowing what my mother was doing. Amber needs to stop making excuses because her drug habbit is no ones fault but her own. She really needs to get a grip on reality and realize what this is doing to her daughter! She had better hope and pray to God that her daughter doesnt grow up to hate her cause she chose drugs over being a mother. Amber seriously needs some professional help!
  • CPN322
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    CPN322

    May 25, 2012 at 10:35 AM

    The best rehab is NOT jail. You can get drugs in and they do. My friend went into jail(VERY long and sad story, she shouldn't have had to) having the only serious drug she'd ever done been smoking pot and came out addicted to heroin. You also pick up bad habits in there. Why anyone would think being around other bad people, bad influences, would be a good thing for her is beyond me. 

    Angela - that is awesome!! You are very strong person!


  • Kate...
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    Kate Peek

    May 25, 2012 at 11:05 AM
    She has had so many chances to get her life together, as well as so many opportunities to receive the help that she needs to get sober. She needs to stop being selfish, & do what's best for her daughter. Not only is she making bad choices, but she's making bad choices on NATIONAL TELIVISION for her daughter to see years from now. I am so sad for little Leah! Grow up Amber, because no one is going to join your little pity party. Well, at least I'm not!
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