Ray J's X-Rated Kim Kardashian Details Can't Hurt Her

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kim kardashianRay J's been in and out of the news for years -- for being Brandy's bro, Whitney Houston's platonic or not-so-platonic pal, and most notoriously, for being "the guy in the sex tape" with Kim Kardashian. But now, it seems like he's getting a major moment in the sun. Probably because he's got a juicy new book, entitled Death of the Cheating Man, which purports to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth about his relationship with Kim.

Being that the former couple's 2003 viral video is still drumming up tons of traffic, are we at all surprised that what Ray J has to say about his ex is sexually-charged (to say the least)? The book reveals more than just a few explicit details about their "wild" sex life together ...

Specifically, he calls the sex "bananas" and "buck wild," writing, "We were like animals; sexually free to try anything and we did." Apparently, the first 30 days with Kim put him "in a trance," and "the wilder the sex, the more my feelings got stronger.” He says she was a "straight freak who was down to do whatever, whenever, and ... she seriously hypnotized me. There are certain things that a woman can do to hypnotize a man, and Kim knew them all."

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As if that weren't enough, he gets into the nitty-gritty of their intimate life:

There was always a panty show for me to see which pair of panties I wanted her to wear, just before we’d go out. And that was the regular. ... We would get sexual at any time and then she would do certain things that most women just don't seem to do. ... She had a very special way of waking me up in the morning.

Oh boy! We get it, Ray J, yeeesh! Even if she's not the most beloved woman on the planet these days, you can understand why Kim has gotten some sympathy for her ex's blabbing. But do we really need to feel bad for her? I don't think so.

First of all, the sex tape made Kim $65 mil. (as of last year) and thrust her into the national spotlight in a huge way. So I can't really see how the details surrounding that time in her life (which is all these are) could hurt her or damage her reputation. It's not like we didn't already know she had a, err, colorful sex life with the guy!

Furthermore, as far as we can tell, nothing Ray J wrote really paints Kim in a negative light. To the contrary, it's a rave review that makes her seem like a woman who is very confident and comfortable in her sexuality. What's wrong with that, and why should she be ashamed of that?

I could understand how it might be a little embarrassing personally to have this old news drudged up and splayed across tabloid covers, but whether she likes it or not, that's been an everyday occurrence for Kim. I'm pretty sure she can -- and has -- handled much, much worse.

Does Ray J's tell-all make you feel bad for Kim?

 

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nonmember avatar S

I found the video to be boring as hell.



If it didn't have semi-famous people in it, nobody would think anything of it.

the4m... the4mutts

Hell no! Id be flattered if some man said, in a public forum, I could HYPNOTIZE him with my skills.

dirti... dirtiekittie

i just wish the kardashians would crawl back into whatever dark hole they crawled out of. people can be celebrities for absolutely NOTHING of value these days.


where's the article about lucy lawless sneaking onto a ship with other members of GreenPeace to stop arctic drilling? can we talk about someone contributing something meaningful??

Dalla... DallasGirl214

The video was nothing special. I think he just wants attention.

mamivon2 mamivon2

Not really.. was rather boring

Alene Scott

I feel sorry for RJ that he not been taugh the no kiss and tell rule.

godde... goddess99

no.. she can just buy herself happy.

memek... memekisses

I hate ray j. Ew

slw123 slw123

Not really.

MomoJL MomoJL

Who the heck is Ray J?  I keep hearing this name.

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