Demi Moore Can’t Heal With Ashton Kutcher in Her Life

on February 2, 2012 at 3:29 PM

ashton kutcher demi moore It's cool, you guys. Ashton Kutcher isn't just a sleazy, cheating husband who parties with supermodels in Brazil while his soon-to-be ex-wife lies unconscious on the floor and her friends make a panicked 911 call on her behalf. He's, like, "deeply concerned" for her.

The Two and a Half Men actor was seen pulling up to Demi Moore's home on Wednesday (reportedly looking "deeply concerned"), shortly after a plain, old "concerned-looking" Bruce Willis arrived. Both of her exes apparently really want the star to go to rehab. That's nice of them. And perhaps she should go. But, where does Ashton get off telling Demi to do anything? Don't you lose that right when you cheat like a dirty, dirty dog in Vegas?

Look, I get it. The Kutch happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time when Demi passed out -- clearly, he didn't mean to be yucking it up in Brazil that fateful night (although it does show where he's at, emotionally, amidst this whole mess). But don't go waltzing back into the United States, acting like you're super concerned for your ex's welfare. Even if he is super-concerned for Demi (which, dude, hopefully, he's somewhat concerned), send her a text, give her a call. Don't go over to her place, asking her to go to rehab. In a weird, roundabout way, it's sort of condescending, because he's the one who caused this tailspin. Bruce, I get -- he has kids with the woman -- but Ashton should zip it.

The best thing for Demi right now is to have as little Ashton in her life as possible. I can't imagine that he conjures up anything good when he's around. If he suddenly wants what's best for the woman he did so dirty, he should just give her some space. But maybe not partying-with-supermodels-in-Brazil kind of space.

Do you think Ashton has a right to tell Demi to go to rehab?

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Stacey.

on Feb 2, 2012 at 3:39 PM

Why do people keep bringing up the fact he was in brazil while this happened? They were already broken up, and it's not like he could have predicted she would do whip its and have a seizure. Sounds like girlfriend has some serious personal issues, and using Ashton as a scapegoat wont fix it. Unless he was kidnapped I am sure he had every intention to be in Brazil. If Ashton was at Demi's house it's because Demi let him over there! What happened to personal responsibility, why do we lack it so much, and why is it seen as a bad thing? The first step to fixing a problem is admitting YOU have one!

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PamalaLauren

on Feb 2, 2012 at 4:05 PM

How the hell does anyone know that her issues didn't contribute to much of the break up? What if they were already on the way to separation when he started dating others. Drug issues such as hers don't happen over night. To judge him when you have no idea what was going on, seems totally wrong.

nikolita87

on Feb 2, 2012 at 4:41 PM

I agree ^ We know that Ashton cheated, but we really don't know much else about their personal lives. Demi has had issues her whole life, especially when she was younger, and I'm sure their divorce is just making that worse. So we can't really put all the blame on Ashton since what we know is probably just the tip of the iceburg. I think if Ashton DIDN'T visit her, people would be bitching about that too, and saying he doesn't care about her wellbeing. Either way he's going to be criticized. The point is she really does need to get help, and personally I think he has the right to encourage her to do so. Maybe him showing up meant a lot to her.

Nonmember comment from rowdygirl

on Feb 2, 2012 at 4:43 PM

Saying that Kutcher "caused this" is part of the whole celebrity and otherwise spoiled brat problem in the world now. People have to be held accountable for their own actions.. she may be upset that she was cheated on, but she was the one who made her drug (or whatever) choices. He didn't "MAKE" her do anything, just like she didn't MAKE him cheat.