Bollywood Actress Jiah Khan's Dramatic Suicide Note Released & Boyfriend Arrested

Jiah KhanLast week the Bollywood community was rocked by the news that 25-year-old actress Jiah Khan had been found hanged in her Mumbai home. Today there's been a bizarre twist in the story of Khan's untimely death: Suraj Pancholi, Khan's boyfriend and the son of famous Bollywood couple Aditya Pancholi and Zarina Wahab, has been arrested on suspicion of abetting her suicide.

Pancholi isn't being accused of actually physically assisting her death -- but Khan's mother says he abused her daughter to the point where she became suicidal. The family has released Khan's six-page suicide note, which describes the emotional torture an unnamed individual put her through, ending with the lines, "All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything."


The reports of Khan's suicide say she committed suicide by hanging herself from a ceiling fan at around 11:45 p.m. in a bedroom of her Mumbai home on Monday, June 2. Five days later, her sister discovered a six-page suicide note, which Khan's family then shared with the public via scanned images.

Here is a transcript of Jiah's handwritten letter:

I don’t know how to say this to you but I might as well now as I have nothing to lose. I’ve already lost everything. If you’re reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me everyday. These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I’ve never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies. It didn’t matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely the pain you have caused me everyday has destroyed every bit of me, destroyed my soul. I can’t eat or sleep or think or function. I am running away from everything. The career is not even worth it anymore. When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don’t know why destiny brought us together. After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn’t deserve this. I didn’t see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically. Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you. So I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye.  I never told you but I received a message about you. About you cheating on me. I chose to ignore it, decided to trust you. You embarrassed me. I never went out, I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. I never met anyone with Karthik I just wanted you to feel how you make me feel constantly. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood.

Things were looking up for me here, but is it worth it when you constantly feel the pain of heartbreak when the person you love wants to abuse you or threatens o hit you or cheats on you telling other girls they are beautiful or throws you out of their house when you have no where to go and you’ve come to them out of love or when they lie to your face or they make you chase after them in their car. Or disrespects their family. You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents. You tore my soul. I have no reason to breathe anymore. All I wanted was love. I did everything for you. I was working for us. But you were never my partner. My future is destroyed my happiness snatched away from me. I always wished the best for you, was ready to invest what little money I had in your betterment. You never appreciated my love, Kicked me in the face. I have no confidence or self esteem left, whatever talent whatever ambition you took it all away. You destroyed my life. It hurt me so much that I waited for you for ten days and you didn’t bother buying me something. The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you. I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply. You destroyed my Christmas and my birthday dinner when I came back. When I tried my hardest to make your birthday special. You chose to be away from me on Valentines Day. You promised me once we made it to one year we would get engaged. All you want in life is partying, your women and your selfish motives. All I wanted was you and my happiness you took both away from me. I spent money on you selflessly you would throw in my face. When I would cry for you. I have nothing left in this world to live for after this. I wish you had loved me like I loved you. I dreamt of our future. I dreamt f our success. I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again. I am nothing. I had everything. I felt so alone even while with you. You made me feel alone and vulnerable. I am so much more than this.

Khan's boyfriend, Suraj Pancholi, was taken into police custody on Tuesday. He was arrested for abetment to commit suicide under Section 306 of the Indian Penal Code.

This story is so tragic I don't even know where to start. I mean, it seems strange to me that a person could be arrested for someone else's suicide based on a one-sided description of what appeared to be a very troubled romantic relationship, but this is a different culture with different laws. Mumbai police certainly seem interested in the fact that Pancholi was reportedly the last person Khan spoke to on the phone before she took her own life.

What I really feel, based on that letter, is a strange sense of kinship with this poor woman. I haven't been in her exact shoes, obviously, but many years ago I had some incredibly low moments that came as the direct result of a fucked-up relationship. A relationship I should have ended the moment it started going off the rails, instead of hanging on and hoping things would get better.

Khan was young and passionate, and her words convey the drama she likely brought to the big screen. It's a horrible tragedy she saw no way out of her situation, and I'm not sure it will help her grieving family to see Pancholi punished by the legal system -- but I'm sure they're hurting and angry and looking for someone to blame. It sounds like they also want the world to know that Jiah Khan's despair wasn't caused by a lagging career, as many initially theorized. As Khan's mother said in a press conference in which she defended her choice to release Khan's note,

My point is to tell you the truth. It is being said that she was depressed and had no work, but it was not the case. It was the insecurity that her love was not respected and recognized that was killing her day by day.

What do you think about this strange turn of events in Jiah Khan's suicide? Do you think the boyfriend deserved to be arrested, based on that note?

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