Hi. I'm Kristen. Not Krissy. Or Kris. There's a difference. After having kids, I left life as a college music professor and became a writer, sex book author, and the current host of Cafemom Studios' show "Coffee Shop Confessions."
When I'm not chasing after my four children or trying to keep track of my commercial pilot and Air Force Reserves officer husband, I can be found at my personal blog Motherhood Uncensored, as well as at Cool Mom Picks and Cool Mom Tech where I'm co-publisher and CEO.
I've never actually heard a guy complain about a quickie, but women on the other hand -- well, they can go either way. It's nice to one-and-done so you can go about your business and not take up a whole morning or evening screwing around.
But it can be hard to get the most out of them, particularly if you've got post-partum lubrication issues like many moms do.
So here are my tips for making them super hot again. Just think about all the time you'll be able to save once you master them.
When it comes to improving your sex life, you might be surprised to learn that you don't necessarily need to stock up on sex toys and lube. Actually, there are a lot of simple lifestyle changes you can make outside of the bedroom that will really help what goes on inside.
So before you buy stock in batteries, take a peek at my suggestions for simple changes you can make in your everyday life that will help make your sex life better.
If there were any saying that applied to me, it would be "We are our own worst critics." Especially when it comes to parenting. I think we can all agree that we want so desperately to be the best parents for our children that when we "mess up" or do something we wish we could take back, it really hurts.
I only wish I had realized this a bit sooner and hadn't spent so much wasted energy shaming myself.
Yesterday morning I spent over two hours searching for my only set of keys. Thankfully, I found them tucked behind my 5-year-old's booster seat in our car.
Trust me, I've spent the last 24 hours trying to figure out how in the world they got there.
After cleaning up the mess I made attempting to find them (oh yes, I went through the garbage), I wanted to kick myself for not having spares. And that got me thinking about how ill-prepared I am for a lot of things, not just lost keys.
If you're not into role-playing in the bedroom, Halloween is the perfect time to give it a try. You've got a slew of awesome, affordable costumes right at your fingertips that you can wear out trick-or-treating with your kids, then sex them up for some fun in the bedroom.
Here are my top picks for best role-playing Halloween costumes for adults (and a few scenarios to try out).