Boy Rejects His Father for Being Poor Only to Find Out How ‘Rich’ His Father Really Was (VIDEO)

the giftDoes it ever feel like the values you're trying to instill in your children are just bouncing right off of them? Few things break a parent's heart like feeling as if your kids are rejecting the important life lessons you're trying to teach them. But is that really a rejection, or is your lesson a seed that takes years and years to sprout and grow? A tear-jerker of a video called "The Gift" shows what happens when a son rejects his father for being poor and focused on the "wrong" things -- only to learn years later what his father was sacrificing for him and for others.

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The story is about a boy who was raised by his father, no mother or siblings. The boy is ashamed that they don't have very much money and that his father doesn't seem very ambitious. His father tells him, "Being rich is not about how much you have but about how much you give." But the boy doesn't get it. All he sees is what he lacks. He moves far away for school and all but forgets about his father.

It's not until he becomes an adult, and his father dies, that he realizes the priceless legacy his dad left him. I don't want to give it away, because it's such a lovely surprise, and it's so sweet to watch unfold. Well, it's bittersweet, because the son never gets to thank his father properly in person.

But what he does instead shows how deeply he internalized his father's lesson. All these years later, he finally gets what his father was trying to teach him about generosity and the deeper meaning that can be found in life. I think if his father could see him, he would be immensely proud.

What lessons did your parents try to teach you that you didn't truly appreciate until you were older?


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Saphi... SaphiraJFire

Wow that was incredible. I am still crying.

Choco... Chocodoxies

That was a fantastic video. It had me crying hard. As an American, abundant in many freedoms, it struck a chord. I can't help but hear the call of communism in the moral however: "Being rich is not about how much you have, but how much you give". That thinking, while noble, has caused many in China to suffer and die to give what little they have for they greater good while the wealthy profit off of backs of the hardworking.  

Momm2... Momm2threeboyz

Best thing I've seen in such a long time! Can't help but cry!! lol

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nonmember avatar ann

I don't understand??

nonmember avatar ann

I don't understand??

Emma Schwartz

I dont understand why it was it a secret ??  Children   learn much  more by what we do then what  we say ?  Why didnt the child know why  did he not go with the  father .   In stead the child the  thought the father was a didn't  care about him or  want to spend time with him.. Sure he learned when he was DEAD  but  what good was it then ?  

nonmember avatar BlueBelle

Chocodoxies… this video is from Singapore which is pretty much the model picture of corruption free, transparent, free-market capitalism. Its economy is massive, competitive, innovative as hell, and has minimum government intervention.

Just an odd comment… not all Asians are Chinese. Maybe you were hearing the call of projection instead?

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