Follow The Stir

Say What!?

Public School Puts Boys & Girls Into Different Classrooms

by Deborah Cruz on July 10, 2012 at 9:32 PM

classroomAn Idaho educator is making national news for separating the boys from the girls at her elementary school in southwestern Idaho. And I can see why: This has the stink of separate but equal all over it. It didn’t work during segregation and it won’t work now.

Robin Gilbert’s school is one of dozens of public schools being targeted by the American Civil Liberties Union in a battle to decide whether or not single-sex learning is a violation of our civil liberties.

When I was in college I chose to spend my freshman year living in an all girls dorm because I didn’t want the distraction of boys. Granted they were still all over campus and in my classrooms but at least I had one place free of testosterone where I could just be myself without worrying about what some guy was thinking about what I was doing, how I looked or behaved. This was what I chose; no one told me that I had to be separated from the boys.

I agree with the schools that separating boys and girls into classrooms by sex will definitely help to teach them in a way that works better for each sex and eliminate distractions but I think that it will end up feeding into gender stereotypes. By allowing the schools to decide to separate and determine how the kids will be taught and where the emphasis on different parts of the curriculum will lie, it gives the teachers too much responsibility and power over the child. Depending on what each teacher's own personal philosophy is on the sexes, they could teach different things or place emphasis on different subjects resulting in shortchanging our children's education.

I personally don’t want my girls cut any slack because some random teacher thinks women are not good at math or won’t need to know how to use advanced physics. The fact that some teacher might think it’s more important to teach my daughters how to cook and sew instead of figure out algebraic formulas scares me.

Obviously, we all know that women can be anything a man can be but I don’t want to leave the decision in the hands of a stranger. I am entrusting my children into the care of the school system to be taught the foundations to become anything they want to be in this world. The last thing I want is for my girls to be brainwashed into believing they have to live in a pink sparkly world and their only option is to be someone’s wife.

What do you think about students being separated by sex? Good idea or bad idea?

Image via Spader/Flickr

Filed Under: education, discrimination

Comments

17
  • Whitn...
    --

    WhitneySM

    July 10, 2012 at 9:52 PM

    I think it's a great idea. These kids will end up learning so much more being in a class with their own gender. Girls do learn so much differently from boys. Now I didn't read the original article so I might be wrong, but the kids still get to have recess together and be around each other at different times in the day, they aren't being totally seperated. And I can't see a teacher deciding to teach the girls sewing instead of math..... unless it's a home ec class.The teachers need to teach whatever the state tells them to teach so that really isn't a valid concern.


  • Mommy...
    --

    MommyGeek

    July 10, 2012 at 10:08 PM
    You obviously have no understanding of what "curriculum" is. I was a high school teacher for 15 years.....I have taught chemistry classes with all girls, all boys, and mixed. Each had it's pros and cons. I loved and hated things about each experience. At no time did I (nor any of my fellow teaching professionals) decide that my "girly girls" were not smart enough for balancing chemical equations so I would instead teach them how to paint their nails! I taught ALL of my classes the same required chemistry curriculum. The difference was in how I taught in each situation and the different learning styles and classroom climate that each situation created.
  • Aeris...
    --

    AerisKate

    July 10, 2012 at 10:37 PM

    The original article actually says that the kids are taught the same curriculum. So, no, the teachers are not teaching the girls how to cook while the boys get to learn math.  They are all learning the same subjects.  Parents also have the right to opt out and have their kids be in a co-ed class. I don't see what the big deal is.  If it helps the kids learn better, then I think it's great.  


  • Heather
    -- Nonmember comment from

    Heather

    July 10, 2012 at 10:44 PM
    This isn't anything new. They have been doing this at a middle school I worked in for years. The curriculum and testing is the same (standardized tests). Just a different environment.
  • Chelsea
    -- Nonmember comment from

    Chelsea

    July 10, 2012 at 11:02 PM
    Just because they are in a co-Ed class doesn't mean that they are getting the help they need if the teacher is biased to a certain gender. Lots of times kids fall between the cracks because the teacher thinks that the kid should be able to get it easier and spends more time with other or the teacher gives up on a child because they don't think they will ever amount to anything and just end up being a wife. That being said im a sahm and I use every bit of what I learned in school, I was taking college courses and the courses where easier than the stuff I do on an everyday basis. So don't say they will end up being just someones wife like its the worst thing a girl can do.
  • Tripl...
    --

    TripleC14

    July 10, 2012 at 11:11 PM
    This article is creating an artificial scandal. Kids are "streamed" all the time to accommodate different learning abilities/styles. And since curriculum isn't set in individual classrooms, that's a non-issue. So if it benefits the kids, what's the problem??

    P.s. This is so far removed from the era of racial segregation in schools, and referencing that to bolster a rather weak argument is pretty sad.
  • MAE
    -- Nonmember comment from

    MAE

    July 11, 2012 at 12:01 AM
    The real stereotyping shown is on the authors part, her predjudices are shown in all their glory. The article actually states that there is a CHOICE for parents, not compulsory. The authors world view comes from a warped and archaic view of girls being educated inferiorly, I assure you the feminists have turned the tides and boys are short changed educationally now, Universities have 70% female enrollment and females make up the vast majority of new doctors. This knee jerk reaction anytime "women's rights" comes up is ridiculous, in fact, the only segregated schools that are "allowed" are female, as some crazy parent sues an all boys school for right for their daughters to attend, so parents of boys have no choice but to send their children to co-ed, while girls have multiple gendered choices.
  • BusyM...
    --

    BusyMom7789

    July 11, 2012 at 1:26 AM

    I think it's a great idea as long as they have the same curriculum.  Reading the original article girls and boys come together for recess and lunch and to do special projects.  Instead of spending so much money in courts the parents should be able to help decide if it's beneficial for their children.  Distractions from the opposite sex and large classroom sizes can cause kids to fall behind.


  • Jessi...
    -- Facebook comment from

    Jessie Bryer Doula

    July 11, 2012 at 4:30 AM
    I am really surprised this concept is getting such negative attention, because I think it's a great idea. Boys and girls have different tendencies in learning and separating them makes it possible for a more tailored curriculum. I think that separate classrooms might actually contribute to kids' development of healthy gender perceptions- in the adult world, men and women are equally capable but still fundamentally different! Bonding with peers of our own gender is an important skill that many adults struggle with.
  • winte...
    --

    winterglow

    July 11, 2012 at 9:35 AM

    I don't understand why this is causing such a fuss. Nearly all the studies done on the subject (and I have read studies from several countries) show that this is beneficial.


1-10 of 17 comments

To leave a comment, log in as a CafeMom member:

Log In

OR, use our non-member comment form: