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Baseball Player's Act of Kindness Means the World to Autistic Boy & His Family

by Julie Ryan Evans on June 27, 2012 at 12:34 AM

Jeff FrancoeurI don't know a whole lot about Major League Baseball, but I do know that Jeff Francoeur, a right fielder for the Kansas City Royals, is a hell of a nice guy. There are all sorts of stories of him doing fun things during games, like delivering pizzas to fans of the opposing team, but it was his interaction with an autistic boy at a game recently that really makes him an all-star in many eyes -- particularly those of the boy's mom.

Tammy Blanchard Robertson was so moved by the time Francouer took to spend with her son and the kind way in which he treated him that she wrote a heartfelt message on the Royals' Facebook page. It has since started going viral as it's such a sweet, feel-good story.

In it she tells of how her son -- who typically doesn't like loud noises -- was actually excited for this game. When he was able to get the attention of Francoeur to sign his hat before it started, he was ecstatic ... then he tripped.

Here's part of the post in which Robertson explained what happened next:

Our son stared up at you with tears in his eyes, you took the time to coddle him, ask his name, and make him feel special.

We just wanted to say thank you for not only taking the time to come over to see our son, but for signing his hat, and posing for a picture with him. It is truly a day that our son will never forget. You are a true role model, this was a day our family will always remember.

I don't know if Francoeur had any idea that the boy was autistic, but his act of kindness clearly made a huge impact on this family, and it's something from which we can all learn -- both that going the extra mile to make someone's day is almost always worth it, and also that expressing our gratitude can mean a whole lot too.

Too often parents get flak from people for everything from our kids being too noisy in restaurants to them being too unruly on planes, and parents of autistic children often face an even greater lack of understanding from the general public for their children's behavior. So it's nice to see examples like this in which people go out of their way to make a kid's day, for no reason other than it's a nice thing to do.

What's the kindest thing someone has done for your child?

 

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Filed Under: autism, boys

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  • annis...
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    annismom10

    June 27, 2012 at 2:26 AM
    This made me tear up! What a wonderful man. I wish everyone had such big hearts when it came to kids
  • mompam
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    mompam

    June 27, 2012 at 7:17 AM

    We once had a really nice experience with a baseball player too - Shawn Green. He was on the opposing team and my son was watching warm ups. Shawn was on the field, got the ball and walked over and put it in my son's glove. It was so nice. I never forgot it.


  • CPN322
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    CPN322

    June 27, 2012 at 10:22 AM

    Happy tears :) what a wonderful man and great role model!


  • lasombrs
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    lasombrs

    June 27, 2012 at 10:28 AM

    What a great story! Our son has some delays and its is definetly disheartening to take him out in public some days ebcause people are so rude


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    Jan Peterson

    June 27, 2012 at 2:35 PM
    My older son was also autistic. One of his rewards for having a good week was to go Long John Silver's on Friday. One time while we were there, an employee told him he should write to the president of the company because he was there so much. He did and I put a note in along with his letter explaining that he was autistic and the fact he was even doing this was miraculous. Not only did the president of Long John Silver's respond but he sent him an LJS jacket which had been given out to managers at their last conference and coupons for free meals at LJS. That was in the early 1980s. Neither my son nor I have ever forgotten the thoughtfulness and kindness of that wonderful man!
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