A Canadian father is outraged and has vowed to go on a hunger strike after losing custody of his two special needs children. The two boys, 5 and 6 years old, will now be put up for adoption. And he believes the reason this happened is because he's too fat. The man, who used to weigh 525 pounds, now weighs 355 pounds. But he'll soon weigh a lot less, because he plans to stop eating until he gets his children back. "I am absolutely blown away by this decision, and I will not stand for it," said the fat dad.
The man, who lives in Ottawa and can't be named to protect his kids, says that his obesity was a big factor in the judge's decision. The judge ruled that the man's losing more weight would take up too much of his time, and he wouldn't also be able to parent two young special needs kids. I guess this wouldn't be so horrible if the children were going to go live with their mother, but they are being put up for adoption.
There is more going on here than just the man's weight. Also taken into the judge's account was the man's marijuana habit and his "violent" tendencies. However, even the judge acknowledged that the man was never violent with the children. The man also says he has been in counseling and taken anger management classes.
The judge heard much more than I did, so perhaps it was the right decision -- but putting two children up for adoption is serious and permanent. Children are going to love their father whether or not he's fat. Being obese certainly is a health risk. But it's about on par with smoking and children don't get taken away from parents who light up.
Would the kids pick up bad eating habits from dad? Possibly. But obesity and overeating is related to genetics, too. The kids could overeat wherever they end up. They may be even be more likely to overeat because of the trauma of being separated from their father.
As long as the parent loves their child and takes proper care of them, weight and other health issues shouldn't be a black-and-white determining factor in custody.
Do you think obesity should be a factor in child custody cases?
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@lydia- Are you ill or just taking up space? I'm sure there is more to this story, however there has been custody cases where a parent's health have come in question on their ability to care for their children. Usually there is someone in the family to take the kids like other parent or extended family but it can happen.
If you read the linked article, I'm guessing the chronic pot use and the fact he used to own a pot co-op has a lot to do with it. Judges do not like illegal drug use at all. When I worked for an attorney we had a case where the mom was living with a guy that was not allowed to be with kids due to the death of one his children and a history of severe neglect of his other kids. We represented one dad who had an amazing girlfriend who took this little boy in and within a short period of time this child had caught up to his peers in potty training and speaking. But the dad would not stop smoking pot and when I left that firm it looked like the kid was going to be put in foster care because of that.
I love my hair, but its odd to hear a man compliment my look. Only men I know that don't find it gross, are my SO and FIL.
I am completely flattered all around today. I'm going to go to bed with a big ass smile on tonight :D
Lydia-- not all single dads abuse their children. I worked as a nanny for a single father, and he was one of the most upstanding gentlemen I had the pleasure of knowing. in their case, it was the MOTHER that was psychotic! Some men actually love and care about their children. WOW, get your head checked!
OH, and BTW lydia--I was raised by my mother and STEPFATHER, and he was more of a father to me than my bio father every was! My SF is my DAD, not my father who was nothing but a sperm donor. My sister's kids are being raised by their mother and stepfather... and it's the same thing. He stepped up tp be a dad when my ex-BIL walked out on them. My niece calls her SF 'daddy' because he's the only daddy she's ever known. Get some help, will you?
The shit out of you for such comments. Get some help honey cause you SERIOUSLY need it!!!
Wow Lydia! What kind of delusional man-hating world do you live in?
Fat dad? Please edit.