Some punishments clearly cross the line. This is one of them.
A woman allegedly beat her 7-year-old daughter -- leaving bruises and lacerations -- for kissing a kindergarten classmate. A New Jersey judge ruled that she was not within her parental rights for a punishment that went well beyond a "customary spanking."
In court documents, the mother defended the beating saying it was within her constitutional rights to use that type of punishment. And believe it or not, an earlier court decision agreed with her. The first judge to hear the case didn't think the whupping was actually excessive. Huh? That is a serious head scratcher. But it's easy to see why that decision was reversed.
Prosecutors said photos of the girl showed bruises on her arms, back, buttocks and thoughts. She also had cuts to her buttocks and right though likely caused by the belt buckle. If this mom reacts like this over a little kiss, I shudder to think of what would happen if the little girl were to cuss or hit. There must be some line when it comes to corporal punishment.
I know, I know. Just who is going to set the standard outlining when it's okay to hit. Well, until the International Association of Spanking Parents comes out with an official rule book, parents will just have to use a bit of common sense. Kiss - a scolding, if even that. Stealing - a spanking, if that's your preference. In any circumstance, a spanking that results is bruising and lacerations is over-the-top. Giving birth to children doesn't give you the right to torture them.
Do you think this mom was within her rights?
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Hitting a child is never okay. There is never a justification for that.
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I believe in physical discipline in my household, on when absolutely necessary. But for something like that? I would have to "hit" my kid all the time ! She is a six year old and she is going to kiss on little boys thinking it is funny. I would never hit her for expressing herself. If she is sixteen doing the deed in my house, then there is a going to be a problem. But seven? That is perfectly normal. The mother seems like she hits for no reason.
It amazes me that anyone can be a mom. Such a shame.
Ummm this subject, headliner is disgusting. WHEN is OKAY to HIT a CHILD? I do not think hitting is ever ok. Especially if you're teaching a lesson. Hit to teach someone? Violence and pain to teach? What the hell is wrong with people. Don't we know better? Haven't we learned and became more educated? So many resources, studies and science ... not to mention countless heartbroken children and adults with experiences ... teach us hitting is NOT EVER OKAY.
Would it be okay if my husband decided to whip me because he wanted to teach me a lesson? What is he caught me kissing another man and decided to beat me? HE'D GO TO JAIL.
The Stir is quickly disgusting me.
No. most definitly not.. TEACH NOT BEAT!