Kelli Nelson is a mom who isn't afraid to talk about her feelings in her blog The Sweetness of Life. And we love her for it.
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Do you ever wonder if your children feel your love? I mean really feel it. Often when I look at one of mine, I wonder if they can feel the swell of my heart at that moment.
Okay, so my 17 year-old scary-teenage-know-it-all son isn’t thinking about how I love him when I’m in his face about his lack of effort to complete calculus assignments.
And I’m certain her royal highness isn’t reveling in the strength of my love when I tire of her endless 4-year-old chatter and clinging for the day and tell her to leave me alone.
I’m a confessed indulgent mom. I give in easily. I’m tolerant, permissive, and usually quite agreeable with all the “I wants.” Sometimes I yell but I rarely discipline. And my kids are well aware.
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But can they feel the depth of my love? Do they feel the life-altering, earth-moving, unconditional love that’s so much greater than mere words?
I sometimes think about asking them. But I never do because I’m a coward. I’m afraid of the answers I might receive.
If I ask my son, he might remind me that I told him to fuck off at Disney a few months back. Or he might remind me of the day I shouted about his irresponsibility all the way to school and continued to shout through my open car window, as witnessed by a cadre of his interested peers.
If I ask my people-pleaser daughter, she might just tell me what I want to hear instead of what I want to know. Or she might remind me that I hid in the bathroom for an hour yesterday while she waited patiently for me to start her Tinkerbell DVD.
Then I remember how my son cried as a young boy if ever he saw me with tears. And how he demanded we sit in the same chair every evening after dinner as we giggled through Dexter’s Laboratory together. I remember how he never forgets to say, “Love you, Mom” each time he leaves the house to drive away on his own.
Then I remember how my daughter gets her Little Mermaid ice pack out of the freezer and holds it to the back of my head until her little fingers freeze each time I mention a headache. I remember that beautiful smile meant only for me as she runs out of her ballet class each week to jump into my arms.
So, my fellow cowards, the next time you wonder if your children really feel your love, come find me and together we’ll remember the little things our kids do to provide us with the answer.
Do you think your kids feel it?
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Comments 19
i do honestly feel that my two very young boys feel my love. i am one of those protective mothers that if anybody lays a hand on my babies to correct them besides me or their daddy mama bear comes out. and i know they feel that love because no matter who it is, if im fighting with my fiance or my mother or just anybody my 2 (almost 3) year old is right there shouting right back at them. "no! stop! dont yell at my mommy!" or my 1 (almost 2) year old, who is still learning to talk and can only say a few things here and there, but its his actions that show that he feels it. when i wake up in the morning he has to give me a kiss, or if were playing he randomly has a moment where he needs like 3 or 4 kisses in a row plus a hug before he continues to play. and at bedtime they both need a hug and a kiss. no i dont get to hear i love you mommy, but i dont need to hear it to know. it is those little things that show that they feel it. like when they come up to me when i have a headache and kiss my forehead and then curl up on the couch with me. they feel it, if you show it to them they feel it.
I am glad to know I'm not the only one who loses my patience.
DD1 is just as emotional and needy as I, so I think she feels it. She hugs me out of nowhere and says she loves me, daily, as do I. She shares the same appreciation for contact I do.. IDK about DD2. She is just like her father, and he is very reserved..
My son is 6 months old. He feels my love and his daddy's love for him, I am sure of it. We spend much of the day cuddling him, carrying him, giving him kisses and hugs, talking and singing to him, clapping at his little achievements, etc. He is one very loved kiddo and he knows it. He makes it very clear with hugs, and smiles and delighted coos that he loves us back. Although I know he feels our love, I don't think he'll really know just HOW MUCH we love him until he has children of his own someday. I loved my parents and knew they loved me, but I never really realized just how much until I had my son.
Good article and yes my kids do feel the love
I'm sure this is a beautifully written article with a point at the end, but I never made it there b/c I was laughing so hard at the "told my son to fuck off at Disney World" bit... love the brutal honesty!