School Restricts Kids' Bathroom Breaks to 3 Times a Week


school bathroomIn a ridiculously overzealous and inappropriate move, a teacher in New York has started seriously limiting her students' bathroom access. And by seriously limit, I mean they only are allowed three bathroom passes a WEEK. Three!

According to the New York Post, students in Ms. Stephanie Warner's fifth grade class at P.S. 90 in Brooklyn say they are given three strips of paper that say, “This coupon entitles [student name] to bathroom.” If they are lost or otherwise destroyed, then they are, well ... sh*t out of luck. And when they do get to go, they only get three minutes to do so.

Not only that, they're encouraged to use as few of those strips as possible, and are awarded prizes the less they go. Can you hear urologists across the country shrieking about the damage holding it can do? If not, that's only because the cries of parental outrage may be louder.

I understand that students may sometimes use the restroom unnecessarily to get out of class, and that when one student has to go, there's often a cascade effect. As Ms. Warner stated in an email to the school's principal, she was "exasperated with the constant bathroom needs." But this isn't the way to deal with the issue.

Yes, it would be great if all of the kids only went during lunch or other designated breaks, but nature doesn't always work that way -- especially not with kids. If my kid was going an unusual amount of times, I'd want to know as a parent, so we could figure out why it was happening. It could be anything from a medical problem to just a bored student looking for an excuse to get out of class. Or maybe the kid really just needs to go more than this teacher thinks necessary. Whatever the reason, that needs to be addressed rather than seeing who can hold it the longest and rewarding those with the biggest bladders with pencils and other trinkets in this warped anti-pissing contest.

While the intent is obvious, the policy is simply outrageous and potentially dangerous and humiliating for students. The teacher and school principal haven't commented yet, but hopefully they will do so soon ... with news that kids are free to pee.

Do you think limiting students' bathroom breaks in this manner is outrageous?

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nonmember avatar Joyce DiLonardo

That is definitely NOT the way to handle a bathroom break problem in the classroom. That teacher is putting the children's health at risk, especially if they have to use the restroom and have run out of their passes. Epic Fail Teacher! Anything to makeit easier for the teachers. Maybe she should re-examine her job?

nonmember avatar Jeff

Our kids' school in Wisconsin has limited bathroom passes to 10 per quarter! There's not really enough time to go except during class, either. It's all part of a new school-wide behavior program started just over a year ago. I started a blog about it at If you find our school's approach ridiculous, please leave comments there.

nonmember avatar bgurrl

pammomof9 Not necessarily. We had rules like this and I'm in my 30's. Frankly, I think these schools do this mess, because they can. Most folks will bitch but comply instead of pulling their kids out. You want to nip crap like this in the bud? Hit them where it hurts! In their pockets. They won't your kids there everyday or they lose cash. Let their asses lose some cash.

hexxuss hexxuss

By age 10 I had surgery to correct a "too wide urethra" - which means I couldn't hold it as well as normal kids.  Year later I had to have another one to make it a bit wider again (oops?).  Either way, I think this can ALSO go with age too? There's NO WAY on earth a kid in Kindergarten will have as much control as someone in their senior year.  In either regard, it's ridiculous, especially since they have no real way to know about medical (or other) issues, and I'd like to find the person who can crap in 3 minutes....  as an ADULT I can barely go, wash my hands & be done with just peeing in 3 minutes!!!

nonmember avatar Purple

This really grinds my gears. Because of Bullcrap rules like THIS, I've developed a "leakage" problem. I can't wear just underpants anymore, I have to wear a period pad EVERY DAY OF MY LIFE now because of stupid limited bathroom privileges like this. Freakin' schools. This shouldn't be limited. This is ridiculous.

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