Sayonara to Principal Who Suspended 9-Year-Old for Sexual Harassment

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Suspended from schoolHypersensitivity strikes again, and its victims are getting younger and younger. Most recently, it’s Emanyea Lockett, a student in a North Carolina elementary school, who was booted from school for commenting that a teacher was “cute.” That’s it.

He didn’t ogle her booty when she walked past his desk or brush up against her in an inappropriate manner. He whispered his fondness to a classmate, it was overheard by an apparently overzealous substitute teacher, and Lockett, a fourth-grader who is all of 9 years old, was issued a two-day stretch of hard home suspension by the principal. For sexual harassment.

Next up: preschoolers who hug life-sized cartoon characters and princesses at Disney Land. Keep your hands to yourselves, kids. 

Now Jerry Bostic, the educator behind the decision to oust the boy, was handed the ultimate ultimatum by the school district: resign or be fired. He was given an hour to decide between the two. As you may imagine, he chose to leave with a bit more dignity and call it quits on his own.  

He points out that the move to suspend Lockett was one mistake in an otherwise stellar career. That may very well be so. But as it usually goes, none of his good deeds garnered national attention and loads of media buzz. His so-called “one” mistake — the one we know about, anyway — did, however. And it sparked so much outrage and disbelief that the suspension was reversed and the school district was backpedaling faster than a pimp sliding into a baptismal pool.

It seems that, in the zeal to stave off any inappropriate pining over a staff member, Bostic and his cohorts took an innocent comment and fanned the flames of controversy with it. As an educator, he should know there certainly are kids out there saying and doing all kinds of things that would make a grown person blush and those are the students begging for a few days of suspension, if for nothing else but to make an example out of them for the other children looking on.

But this just wasn’t one of those instances that called for hard and swift justice. In fact, it didn’t call for any reaction from the administrative office at all. That little boy is almost certainly not the first kid to ever have a thing for one of his teachers. I’m pretty sure the concept of a “schoolboy crush” was born many moons before this child’s mama's grandmother was a kid. It’s part of the innocence of being young and experiencing those first feelings of affection for somebody. Because they’re nice. Because they’re funny. And yes, because they’re cute.

Bostic made himself look like a bully because he overreacted. So now he and his singular-mistake-making self has to pay the wages of slapping a 9-year-old with a sexual harassment accusation.

Was the school out of line for suspending the boy for his comment? And aren't you just a little curious to see the cuteness of the teacher who's at the root of all this controversy? 



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nonmember avatar Liz

It's already come out that this is NOT the whole story. But way to cite sources that only show one half of the whole picture.

bills... billsfan1104

Ty Liz, I thought there should be more.

GlowW... GlowWorm889

@ Liz - What is the whole story, do you know? Because this seems a little extreme to me and I did think there was probably more to the story.

Sarah Burgess

Do we need more of a story? You can't suspend for 'sexual harassment' a CHILD for calling a teacher "fine" or "calling other students bad names". That was the only part of the story that the school talked about in their defense. 


Im happy that the powerful media was able to shed light into the situation. Also this week, because of blogging, a woman who was fired at an airport for refusing to load an obviously abused dog into a plane, was offered her job with backpay due to all of the outrage. 


We are very lucky to live in a society where free speech is actually still somewhat effective in solving wrongs. 

Jess Townsend

the whole story involved the MANY, MANY instances of this child using inappropriate language in school, including (but not limited to) calling other students bitches and the n-word.

Rhaps... RhapsodyG

Calling another student the N-word should have been enough grounds for suspension in my book.

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