Father Suing Facebook Because His Daughter Is Out of Control


FacebookIn Northern Ireland a father is justifiably irate that "lewd" pictures of his daughter were posted to Faceboook, but his anger is very much misplaced. Instead of dealing with his daughter, who posted the pictures there herself, or wondering where he may have gone wrong in parenting her, he's suing Facebook. Of course, why take any personal responsibility for your own child?

His lawsuit says that the company doesn't do enough to enforce the policy that only children 13 and older can have accounts and that it created “a risk of sexual and physical harm” to the girl. It also says Facebook is "guilty of negligence," which I would say is the pot calling the kettle black. Because, uh, where was he while his daughter was posting these “sexually explicit,” “heavily made-up” photos that made her look “much older than her 12 years”?

The father told the Daily Mail she has troubles with or without Facebook and has a history of running away. He told the paper:

I’m taking this case against Facebook as a last resort. I was horrified when I saw the photographs my daughter had posted of herself on the site. She is far too young to understand what she is doing. She suffers problems and engages in self-destructive behavior. She is currently receiving counseling.

I feel for him, but it sounds like Facebook is the least of his worries. So many parents are so quick to find blame with anyone but themselves when their kids do something wrong. The fact is it's up to us to parent our children, not the world's manufacturers of goods and services. Him suing Facebook in this case is like suing a liquor company for a kid getting drunk off liquor snuck from the family liquor cabinet. Once a product -- in this case, Facebook -- is in your home, it's up to you to monitor your children around it.

And yes, the Internet is a wild frontier, and knowing what our children are doing on it at all times is a challenge for sure. But there are programs and precautions you can take to protect your children, and hopefully the lessons we teach them will prevent them from posting such things online. Of course some still will, but some will also drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes, drag race cars, and a million other things that are out there and dangerous. But we can't sue the world just because they don't follow the rules.

Could Facebook make it more difficult for kids to sign up? Perhaps, but they'll just find a way around that too, or go to Twitter, or text the pictures, or something else. If your kid can't handle technology, then take technology away.

I can only imagine how horrifying it would be to see pictures of your baby on the Internet like that for anyone to see; I'd want to take someone down too. But suing Facebook isn't going to help anyone. The fact that she posted them there is likely an indication that she needs more guidance in expressing her sexuality, limits, self-esteem, and the like. Hopefully, he can put the lawsuit aside long enough to concentrate on some of those things that may really help her.

Do you think this father has a case against Facebook?

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sofia... sofia0587

He should sue himself for being an idiot, how hard is it to cut the damn internet and toss that computer out and punish your daughter? Are people really that afraid to discipline their kids now and days or is it just laziness? Yeah sure blame facebook for your daughter being a slut and posting lewd pictures of herself because they put a gun to her head and made her do it. People need to get a life and start accepting some responsiblity for themselves and their kids and stop blaming the internet or anyone else.

Melis... Melissa042807

I think a judge will laugh in his face and throw that lawsuit out thirty seconds into the proceedings.

Courtney Paige Neale

All facebook did was give her a place to post her pictures. They did NOT in any way influence her to do so. This is soooo stupid.

momyo... momyof49743

Wow I agree with all of you here!! Wow really!!!

Melissa Christenson

If he don't control his daughter soon, grandpa will be suing FB for getting her pregnant. LMAO!!! this guy is an idiot!

mom2j... mom2jessnky

seems to me that the father is guilty of negligence (and being an idiot) not Facebook.

Facebook didn't make sure my kid was 13 before she joined... okay... but YOU let her use the computer there dad. This is the problem with the world today, ZERO accountability, no one is ever to blame for their actions it's always someone/something else.

YOU and only YOU are 100% responsible for your actions & choices and their outcomes. NO one else. JUST YOU. I need to go call my dad and thank him for raising me correctly.

Miyu Shira

This is part of the reason this generation of kids is so screwed up... parents that don't want to face the fact that they are lousy at being parents.

Cleesta Cleesta

LOL I'm with the others on this one and you.  Hello daddyO  take some responsibility here - take the computer away, set some stronger boundries. LOL geez


TuReina TuReina

I think he absolutely needs to set boundaries and enforce limits with the girl, but on the other hand, social networking sites are notorious for NOT policing themselves and making sure that 12 year olds can't post sexually explicit photos of themselves online.  It's sad that corporations and business have to parent our children now, but it's a sad fact of life that a lot of parents pay zero attention to what their kids are doing until it's too late.    Jessi Slaughter anyone?

dirti... dirtiekittie

absolutely laughable. this guy is broadcasting to the entire world what an idiot he is and advertising that his child needs help to whomever will listen. how about you turn off the pc, go to the counseling session with her and stop trying to make a buck somewhere? oh wait - that would be good parenting. my mistake. :S

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