If you've got a kid with allergies, you're always on patrol: Wait, what's in that cookie? Are there pine nuts in this pesto? We never let our guard down, so when our kid does spontaneously break out into hives or start wheezing, it's both scary and frustrating. I can imagine how the parents of the boy in the Netherlands who had a near-fatal reaction to a blood transfusion felt when the docs finally figured out the cause: Several of the donors had eaten peanuts before giving blood. I'm sure nobody saw that one coming.
I was similarly (though, thankfully, not as seriously) blindsided by a recent phone call from the school nurse at my kids' school. My 5-year-old son Julian had broken out into hives, could I come and get him? My first thought was peanuts (Julian's personal kryptonite). That's what the nurse thought, too: "Did you give him peanuts for breakfast?" I suppressed the urge to say, "Yeah, because I'm a complete idiot," and shook my head.
Julian hadn't eaten his snack or lunch yet, the nurse said, because his kindergarten was running behind schedule due to that morning's "Read to a Dog!" program. (If you've never heard of "Read to a Dog," it's basically the latest trick schools are using to get kids hooked on reading, which they do by bringing friendly, obliging dogs into classrooms where they "listen" to students reading them stories.) Great, I thought, he must be allergic to dogs now, too. Which was odd, because he'd played with puppies plenty of times before with no problem.
It wasn't until we were driving home that I figured out what was going on. Now lulled into a contented Benadryl haze, Julian was going on and on about the "doggie" from the back seat. "He was so friendly, mommy. He just kept licking and licking my face." Hmmm.
Sure enough, one Googling session later, I had my proof: Lots of dog foods contain peanut butter. It wasn't the animal itself that turned Julian into an itchy mess, it was whatever was in the dog's dish that day.
I can freak out about the possibility of peanuts (or whatever else) hiding in a million places you never would've thought to look, but in the end, I was more relieved than anything else. Peanut ban for everyone? I guess I can't do that. I'd rather be more vigilant about fewer allergens than think my son was allergic to way more things than he actually is.
Have your kids ever had a mysterious allergic reaction? What do you think of this peanut business?
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Comments (46)
ugh that sucks! I can't imagine having to be so diligent all the time.
while I am sorry that your little boy is allergic to peanuts you cannot ban them from everyone. its not right. if we start that we should ban everything because someone out there is allergic to everything.
Peanut allergies are no joke. But I dont think banning peanut butter for everyone is the best solution either.
We've been very lucky in that Wesley doesn't seem to have any allergies. Thanfully! But if he did, I wouldn't expect everyone to give up whatever he was allergic to. It just wouldn't be fair to the rest of the world. I would just hav eto be very diligent in keeping that allergy at bay.
Yeah, allergies in general are no joke. My son is allergic to strawberries, so do I think they should be wiped off the face of the Earth? Some people would say yes, because they're lunatics. Of course peanuts shouldn't be banned. I certainly can sympathize with you, although peanuts are present in more foods inconspicuously than strawberries, food allergies are serious. It sucks to be diligent constantly, and on more than one ocassion I have had to yell at people (in the heat of the moment) bc I turned around and they were offering him a strawberry banana yogurt or drink or whatever. It sucks.
That's stupid! I'm allergic to cats and dogs- therefor I think everyone in the world should have to get rid of their pets. I'm also allergic to 98% of perfumes - so ALL of you need to stop wearing it. LOL- Yeah right. I get they want their kids safe, what parent wouldn't? But lets be reasonable. Take my pet allergy- I don't go to peoples homes with pets and I don't have a pet. And the perfume allergy- I don't wear the stuff, avoid perfume shops and walk away from people who stink. They are MY allergies, therefor I am the one responsible for controlling MY situations. It's not everyone else's responsibility t make sure my allergies don't get set-off. Teach your kids to stay away from what they are allergic to! They need to be responsible for themselves. The world isn't going to change to suit them as adults- so teach them now to pay atttention and be responsible for their problems. And NO, school age is NOT to young. I had to do this, why should your children?
My son was allergic to strawberries, I love strawberries. Thank the Lord he out grew it. But we did have a reaction pop up in his pre-school class. It was a birthday party, but we read all the labels and there were no strawberries, but he broke out in hives, all the parents knew of his allergy. The cupcakes came from a local baker so I took the box and asked if they may have come into contact with strawberries, they had. The lady who iced the cupcakes had been handling strawberries earlier and had not washed her hands. She wanted to know why I was asking, and I told her about my son. She went pale, and I had to reassure her that all was well, and that I was just curious as to why he had a reaction. Allergies are no joke, they can range from mere annoyance to fatal. But to punish a large group because of one person's allergy is pushing it too far.