This year we made the big decision to homeschool our oldest daughter. We weren't completely unsatisfied with the private Catholic school she attended for Pre-K and K, and thankfully, she didn't have any issues or problems.
However, there were enough things about the school that bothered us, and after researching our other options, and figuring out what was best for our family, we landed on homeschooling.
Like anything else, the sometimes single mom schedule makes everything quite a challenge, particularly when school can often be a respite. Aside from the obvious educational and social values of school, let's be honest here, many parents appreciate the time away from their kids and the subsequent break they get, whether they're stay-at-home parents or working parents who would otherwise be paying for childcare.
And when you're parenting solo, that time alone is extra precious.
But the sometimes single parenting schedule can also really benefit a homeschool situation. Unlike many of my friends who are homeschooling, my husband would be home enough that he could participate in the teaching. He's excellent in math and science, two areas that are not my fortes. And I do believe that it's good to have kids learn from more than one perspective.
And even better, he could also help me taxi my kids around to their "after school" activities or get dinner ready while I was out playing chauffeur.
So with all that in mind, we decided that it could actually work.
And so far it has. But not without challenges.
Even though my husband was a pilot instructor, teaching young kids how to subtract is a bit different than teaching college graduates how to fly a plane. And since he's much more laid-back than I am, he often doesn't start teaching until later in the morning; by that time with me, my daughter is pretty much done with her required work and has moved on to reading and other supplemental projects.
And there are the naysayers that aren't afraid to share their two cents about our decision, worrying about the typical social interaction issues or even that I might be overwhelmed.
But we're learning to take each day at a time, trying not to over plan, but also trying not to be too laid-back so that nothing actually gets done. Even though he's gone a lot, we're both equally invested in our daughter's education and we're doing this together, which is a huge blessing for a family that has grown accustomed to doing everything separately.
You can read more about Kristen's homeschooling experiences at The Pioneer Woman Homeschooling.
Photo from Flickr/kevindooley


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AWESOME!!! We homeschool as well, and I can't imagine it any other way!! My kids were originally in a private Christian school but due to many reasons, we felt led to homeschool and haven't looked back. I enjoy watching my children learn and grow and after FINALLY getting out of the "school mode" I'm actually having FUN with this!! I finally found the right curriculum, they have plenty of "social interaction" ( I'll save my comments on that for another time) and I don't have to drag them up to the bus stop at 7 am when it's 20 degrees outside and a foot of snow on the ground. At this very moment, they are downstairs practicing their trumpet and piano and will be back up soon to continue schoolwork.
Wonderful! We are a homeschooling family as well. Our children have never been in any schools (except when we have gone to vote as the local school is our voting location - you should have seen their faces when they saw the school, the first thing they said was "Mommy, it looks like a jail and it smells funny." LOL). And with a husband in school in another state for most of the year (he's taking this semester off so for a change he's home), I know the sometimes single homeschooling routine as well. Last year was difficult trying to shuttle 3 kids to 3 different activities at the same time in 3 different parts of town. Not fun. But I love watching my children keep their love of learning and excitement for learning new things! That is the best part of homeschooling. I have never heard the words, "I don't want to do school." Instead, I hear "Mommy, is it time to start school yet?" (usually at some obscene hour of the morning). LOL
I'm a full time single mom homeschooling :). That said, it's wonderful, even though it consumes most of my time, and sometimes I do miss the time I had when the kids were in school, but I love the opportunity for all of us to learn together, and have fun together.