The story of a San Francisco woman who takes her 8-year-old daughter in for regular bikini waxes made waves here on The Stir recently --
But as it turns out, that mother is hardly alone.
"Virgin waxes" are the name given to salon waxes for girls 8 and up who've never shaved.
According to Wanda's European Skin Care Center, a salon offering virgin waxes in New York:
Virgin hair can be waxed so successfully that growth can be permanently stopped in just 2 to 6 sessions. Save your child a lifetime of waxing ... and put the money in the bank for her college education instead!
Say what?!
NBC's Today show did a story on the trend a few years ago, reporting that more and more mothers were taking in their 10- to 12-year-olds, and sometimes even younger, to get waxed.
“For waxing, 12 years old is the ‘new normal,’” Philadelphia aesthetician Melanie Engle was quoted as saying.
And a Beverly Hills salon owner reported that nearly 20 percent of her customers were tweens.
TWEENS!
What. On. Earth.
In fairness, not all of these young girls are getting bikini waxes. Waxing ranges from eyebrow shaping to leg and arm hair waxes -- and I'll be honest. I don't have a problem with a tweenage girl wanting to get rid of her unibrow or the dark hairs that have started to grow on her upper lip. Kids can be cruel, and if the tween requests it and it minimizes teasing, I say let her go for it.
I speak from some experience, since I had light hair on my forearms when I was a tween that mortified me. My mom wouldn't let me touch it, and I swore then and there that if I ever had a daughter with visible hair somewhere that embarrassed her, I'd let her get rid of it.
Bikini waxes, though? Um. No. That's just weird. And if it's the mom's idea to get the wax, I think that's wrong, too, to be honest. Why rush a girl into growing up before she's ready?
What do you think of "virgin waxes"? Would you let your tween daughter get one?
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Comments (22)
Is she preparing her child to be a porn star or what is the real purpose here? Totally do not agree with this these moms, as an adult she will forever be marked by her mom's decision that she should have no pubic hair and that just doesn't sit well with me... it IS creepy
I'm so glad I have boys! I think if I had a girl who was very hairy in that area i would just do what might stick out of a bathing suit. Certainly not more than that. Waxing that area is so much better than shaving.
Virgin wax as far as arm, lips, brows, legs even, sure! I agree with Lindsay how mortifying teasing can get with girls and their body hair (my best friend was made fun of daily for having very thick and dark hair on her lip).
Definitely not bikini.
Just have to say that these kinds of things make me glad I have only boys. LOL. But seriously, I guess it depends on where the initiative is coming from. If it's the girl that wants the wax done and mom is helping her to make it happen, I guess I don't really see anything wrong with that. It's just hair removal. But if mom is the one saying this needs to be done and making the girl feel like she should, or worse, making the girl do it when she really doesn't want to, then that is wrong no matter what body part you are talking about removing the hair from.
I have 3 girls and I just don't think I would do it. Your public area and its maintenance is such a personal issue. I'll let my girls make their own decisions on how they want to manage upkeep when they're old enough to really care about it. I don't want them thinking about those kinds of things too early.
I think I can see it if a girl has a lot of hair there. Personally I won't let my daughter wax there at such a young age. Just teach her to trim. If she decides to wax after becoming an adult, then it is her decision.
As I was saying....hardly. My tween is not only NOT getting a bikini wax, or anything hair shaving of any kind, she's not getting a bikini either. Thank you for bringing this outrageous trend to my attention!
I totally get the controversy - teenages! bikini! sexuality! arguh! - but ohmigawd. How awesome would it be if I never had to worry about this because I had virgin waxes as a teen?