
This lady was part of our familyWhen I was pregnant with my first child, my husband and I looked into the day care down the street and shook our heads at such extravagances like nannies. Nannies, we just knew, were only for the rich. As we were barely hanging on in the middle class, it wasn't even on our radar. And then reality hit, and we discovered three things about parenting in New York City.
1) Day care can be incredibly inflexible, and work hours in New York City can go much longer than day care hours.
2) Most day cares won't take babies until they're at least 3 months old, and even then, there's a waiting list.
3) Your baby will be sick all winter long, thus making day care an expense you're paying for but not using. A nanny with a tough immune system makes sure you don't get fired from your job.
And with that, we started a part-time nanny search and began to realize that all of the stereotypes we believed about nannies and the people who employ them are wrong.
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