I have a baby and since you're reading the Baby Buzz you probably do too. I was thinking I'd like to have another one—or even two. But then I read this article "Twenty Other Reasons Not to Have a Baby."
Here are some of the highlights:
1. 96 percent of women say they are "less pleased" with their vaginas a year after giving birth.
2. 67 percent of couples say they argue more during the first year after the child is born.
3. Working mothers have a total of 7 hours of "me time" per week (working non-mothers have 17).
4. In the 12 months after a child is born, sexual activity among couples drops by 40 percent, with 25 percent of couples doing it only once a month.
5. Couples with children are twice as likely to file for bankruptcy.
6. 60 percent of mothers say they lost friends once they had kids.
There are 14 more reasons listed not to have a baby, including things like lack of sleep. But none of them has convinced me. Heck, I'm thinking of coming up with my own list "One Reason to Have Twenty Babies." Oh wait, I think Nadya Suleman (the "octo-mom") already wrote that one.
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Comments (36)
I'd gladly trade in my vagina for children, though I have 4 and have no problems conceiving. Honestly? Vagina trauma seems a shallow reason to not have children, to me. Some of the other things you stated were true though, but IMO not a reason to not have children.
my jay-jay is 100% fine ... c sections... didnt effect that at all... as for the fighting and bancruptcy... some people dont plan like they should/kids or not...
Well, I had a C section so it didnt effect much. All mine is doing these days is staying very hot!And ready for the love it diserves, from my fiancee!
Great title. lol
Mine is fine. I think. I mean it's not like I've seen it in 20 years.
She's just peachy :) You want to avoid vaginal trauma? Get off your back, push only when your body tells you to, don't allow an episiotomy, don't allow forceps/vacuum (all of this meaning stay away from the hospital, or the epi and pit at the very least!). Women who give birth at home are very unlikely to tear and when they do, it is minimal.
To TanyaR1024... most mom's who give birth at home are on their second or more kids, which is why tearing at home is less common..
I'd trade my vagina in for my son! Yeah you don't feel the same but its all worth it when you look at this beautiful amazing person you created :) I def. think that the kegel exercises did wonders along with exercising. And the sex going down, pssh, maybe a little but I think you NEED to make time for that esp. for your hubby who is probably horney and wants it more than anything and you feel so tired. I've figured out, just do it and it makes him happy and you as well, and it takes the stress of the day off and you get good nights sleep ;)
bahaha thats hilarious!!
Well i went natural with my little boy he was 9lb 3oz, and there isnt anything wrong with mine!! Also had to be cut used forceps and suction cap (his cord was around his neck)
As for the no sex thing, i think im having more sex now then i did for months b4 i got pregnant. I think it has bought my partner and i closer together...:)
Money is tight with one wage and a mortgage but we work out together as a team!!
I find now im making more friends not losing them... I have more in common with ppl now then ever.....
I cant wait to have another baby.... hoping for a girl next time :)
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I was actually not very happy with mine after baby #1, but since I had baby #2 it seems like it's better than ever! I am totally happy with it now! And my sex life is better now after 2 than it was before #1 came. As for the bankruptcy thing, you can tell it wasn't written by a mom. If you know how to play your cards right you don't go down that alley. The friends thing maybe slightly true but I actually distanced myself from them becauses I didn't feel as though they would be good influences on my children and I still don't. My friends list now consists of those on CafeMom, my sister-in-laws, my MIL, and my hubby is my best friend.
hmmm well my so and i have had better sex since our dd. and i have more orgasms now that shes born....hmmmm i guess everyone is diffrent