I cannot begin to imagine the incredible sadness and thousands of other emotions that go along with having a stillborn child. But according to Stillbirths: How a New Openness Helps Parents Cope, a touching and excellent Newseek.com article, it's something many families go through—still birth happens 10 times more often than SIDS.
Years ago, these babies were whisked away from their mothers and fathers and taken to morgues as if nothing had happened. But today, parents are encouraged to hold and bond with their babies, and many of them have professional portraits taken. "Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep," a group of more than 7,000 volunteer photographers across the globe take pictures of stillborn babies (and babies expected to die soon after birth) for their parents at no cost. The pictures help parents grieve, and cope with their loss. For more information, read the Newseek article or visit Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep.
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Comments (54)
NILMDTS is a great organization. Being a photographer myself, I cannot personally imagine doing this type of photography, but I'm so glad there are many who are able!
I have to agree with fluud, I too am a photographer but I can not imagine being strong enought to take these photos. Thank GOD that there are stronger people then me out there. I imagine thses photos are beyond priceless to the parents and the photographers are just wonderful people.
I wish I had known about this when we were losing our newborn daughter.
We have friends that lost a baby. They brought him home, took pictures. They even had their other kids there to see the baby and take pictures with him. I can't imagine dealing with that myself, but the whole family has coped very well. They shared the pictures with us..I cried. It was amazing and heartbreaking to see.
I think it is a wonderful idea. Although I have never had the need for this service, thank God, I am glad it's out there. Why shouldn't someone have photos of their precisou child, dead or alive? I imagine that they can be very comforting.
We lost our first son at 37 weeks pregnant and I am VERY thankful I was given pictures of him through this organization. We have his photo on our counter, it looks as though he is sleeping. It did help both my husband and I to cope with our loss and to move to the next point in our lives. Thank you to any and all people that are part of this organization. Every parent that has had a stillbirth or a baby die soon after they were born is forever grateful for people like you.
My friend had her baby at 5 months gestation and he died 3 weeks later. They asked if she wanted pictures but she said no, because he was always afraid of the flash when he was alive. But after she left her husband had them take the photos anyway because he knew right then she was hurt, but eventually she'd want to look at them.
I have a frined who is one of the volunteers for NILMDTS. She just had her first assignment last week. She said it was hard, but she really tried to make it a family moment for them.
I'd love to get pictures if I'm ever in that situation. I wouldn't want to pretend it never happened, and pictures are a great way to preserve the memories, no matter how few there are. :)
Our son Noah was born still at 33 weeks. We took lots of pictures ourselves, and I scrapped them into a memory book. Those pictures help us keep his memory alive. I'm so glad some people are able to take photos for the parents too. What a gift in such a hard time.