The mother of a baby switched in a Minnesota hospital this week is understandably upset about the switch. But that's not what has Tammy Van Dyke really all hot and bothered. The newborn boy was breastfed by the wrong mother!
Think that's no big deal? For a second, I was right there with you. So she breastfed him, so what? At least it was a kind and loving moment. Except ... let's think about what happens when you breastfeed a baby.
You are giving that baby breast milk, something made by your body. You're giving the baby all sorts of good things: antibodies to diseases. But if you have something not so good in your body -- say an actual disease -- you've just put the baby at risk.
In Cody's case, he was taken into the room of a woman who had just given birth to twins. The other (wrong) mother started to breastfeed, but something felt off. So she took the baby boy off her breast and checked his name tag. He wasn't hers!
The switch was solved pretty quickly, but because breastfeeding had been initiated, Tammy's son has already had to undergo blood tests for HIV and hepatitis. That means additional needles going into this teeny, weeny little guy. And he's going to have even more as the months go on; he'll have to be tested again and again over the next few years.
As a mother, that's nerve-wracking. It's not just the fear of disease (although that is obviously the biggest concern), but the thought of your baby being put through additional pain over and over. I remember holding my daughter for her lead test, and seeing the needle coming at her tiny arm put tears in my eyes. We're supposed to protect our kids from pain, not have to sit there and watch it happen.
Would you be freaked if another mother breastfed your baby? What would bother you the most?
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what? Wouldn't the women who accidental breastfed him, have already been tested for these things?
When I was pregnant with my son, I was made to have the HIV and hep B tests before he was born, otherwise they would have performed the same on him at birth "just to be sure". Did this (wrong) mother never get tested for these things while pregnant?
Also of note, here's yet another good reason to never let your newborn leave your room or your sight. When DH and I add to our family, we hope to do so with a midwife and in a birthing center...but should the unexpected happen-- such as having to transfer to the hospital-- either he or I will be with that child 24/7, whether the doctors like it or not. I can say, with full conviction, that I don't trust the lot of them.
Bunch of bruhaha over nothing. Women all over the world breastfeed each other's babies. American obsessiveness with the idea of germs. Women are tested for everything under the sun when pregnant. I know from experience. When I had to to have an emergency induction and later c-section due to preeclampsia, my Strep B test results weren't in. They went ahead and gave me the antibiotics just to be safe. Found out later that the results got back to my ob/gyn later that evening after my DD was born. I was Strep B clear. Not a big deal for the breastfeeding...the big deal should be the lapse in security measures.
This seems fishy to me. My husband worked at a prison and he was bit by an inmate and had to go on some medication and get tested for 6 months ( we couldn't do anything physically) until he was cleared after six months. It don't go on for years unless maybe the woman had hiv
I don't understand, whats the big deal? Milk sharing is w onderful bonding experience for women. There obviously isn't anything wrong with the other woman breastfeeding, like HIV/Disease otherwise she wouldnt be breastfeeding her own child.
Your completely over reacting. I would love to have another mother breastfeed my son (5 months) rather than having to give him some bottles of formula because he wasn't gaining any weight with my milk. I really wish there was a program devoted to milk sharing. It would promote breastfeeding and solidarity.
If this did happen to one of my babies I'd want to know everything about the mothers health history and if it were questionable then do more bloodtests and whatnot. I agree that testing the mother would result in the same outcome , no?