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Mom of Missing 'Baby Kate' Plans to Marry Her Daughter's Suspected Killer

by Linda Sharps on September 12, 2012 at 12:04 PM

Do you remember hearing about Baby Kate, the infant girl who went missing last year? Little Katherine Shelbie-Elizabeth Phillips was allegedly taken by her father on June 29 of 2011, and she hasn't been seen since. Despite a massive search effort and an ongoing court case, no information has turned up about Baby Kate's whereabouts -- or whether the baby is still alive.

Baby Kate's father, Sean Phillips, has been in jail since he was convicted of unlawful imprisonment of his daughter earlier this year. He's also been officially named a suspect in what police now consider to be a homicide investigation.

So why has Katherine's mother Ariel Courtland -- the same woman who accused Sean of kidnapping and murdering her baby -- filed paperwork to marry him?

According to Courtland, it's not because she's in love with Philips. She's trying to marry him so she can talk to him:

I need to have answers. I've taken all the steps to try to avoid this. (...) It has nothing to do with Kate. The prison told us that we were never allowed to see each other or talk ... We weren't able to have any contact whatsoever ... unless we were immediate family. I still have a billion ... questions for him.

Apparently Courtland's been banned from visiting Phillips in prison because she's considered to be a victim in the case, and appealing the decision didn't work. She now believes the only way she can see Phillips is if she's part of his immediate family.

That's why she's filing for a marriage license. As Courtland said,

A marriage license is a paper ... It's not saying that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with him. It's saying that I want to marry him for a ... month or however long it takes for me to sit down with him and say, "Hey, what the f--- happened?" That's all it's meant to be. That's it.

Yeah, call me cynical but I'm not really buying this. I mean, really, the only way for her to communicate with Sean Phillips is by marrying him? It's a little hard to accept this explanation when the trial turned up so much damning evidence against her. To be clear, police have stated that Courtland is NOT a suspect in the baby's disappearance or suspected murder -- but her former boss testified that Courtland once said “that she wishes the baby had never been born” and that Kate “would just disappear or die.”

Plus, there was a bunch of information that came out in trial about how Courtland had considered giving up Kate for adoption and even signed papers to do so at one point, and ugh, this whole case has been a giant MESS. I can't help thinking that the real reason behind this marriage scheme is to get spousal privilege so the parents don't have to testify against each other.

Whatever the real story is, it seems less and less likely that Baby Kate will ever be found alive. What a horrible tragedy, made worse by the fact that someone knows exactly what happened to her -- and they're not talking.

What do you think about this twist in the Baby Kate story? Do you think the mom's marriage plans are legitimate?


Image courtesy of Michigan State Police

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  • L25
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    L25

    September 12, 2012 at 12:24 PM

    There was a letter allegedly mailed to her from Sean Phillips about what happened that day, it it posted on newsstation Wood-TV 's website. After he says he "accidentally" killed her by throwing the carseat "not knowing" she was in there, he says that under law spouses have protection from testifying what their spouse has told them ( hence her wanting to marry him) little do they know that this law excludes cases where children are harmed. What a mess.


  • STRAW...
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    STRAWBERRYRAIN

    September 12, 2012 at 12:27 PM

    a wife can testify against a husband if she  chooses too. but the law can not force her too


  • femal...
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    femaleMIKE

    September 12, 2012 at 12:30 PM

    She should have gone with her first instincts and gave that child up for adoption.  I know this sounds terrible but I hope that she sold her baby into adoption, @ least we can say this baby is alive and in good hands.


  • Angel...
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    Angelanscalf89

    September 12, 2012 at 12:47 PM
    I have followed the case since the beginning and even though I havent been following closely lately I still believe ariel has done it.. Friends of mine have spoken with her and shes very suspicious.
  • Sarah
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    Sarah

    September 12, 2012 at 5:52 PM
    This makes me sick!
  • Sheri...
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    Sheri Brebner

    September 12, 2012 at 11:41 PM

    She's marrying him ONLY for one reason and that is to  get spousal privilege so the parents don't have to testify against each other.  They both deserve each other and I hope they find what really happen to that sweet baby Kate. 


  • Melissa
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    Melissa

    September 13, 2012 at 12:11 AM
    Spousal privilege doesn't apply in cases of crimes against children, so they get no protection from testifying by getting married.
  • Tay06
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    Tay06

    September 14, 2012 at 12:23 AM

    I just hope that poor baby is either alive, happy and healthy or finally at peace.


  • Sarah...
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    Sarah Lane

    September 16, 2012 at 6:12 PM

    Law states the spouse cannot be COMPELLED to testify. Big difference.


  • Julie...
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    Julie Dunaway

    September 24, 2012 at 8:47 AM
    If it were me....they'd better put me through a good metal detector because my father taught me it was a parents DUTY to take care of someone that did something to your child. If Ariel is truly innocent then I could see myself trying to find a way to have access to someone that did something to my child....at all cost! Not to say that my first thought also was if they're married they don't have to testify against each other....but someone somewhere knows what happened to that precious little baby girl!
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