As a co-sleeping, baby-wearing, breastfeeding kind of mama, I love discussing everything involving natural parenting topics. And you know what else is natural? Sex with your husband. After having a baby and getting the all-clear from the doctor that your body is ready to resume the nookie, many of us cannot wait to get frisky.
On Coffee Shop Confessions, one mom admitted that she and her husband had sex with their 8-week-old baby right there in the bed with them, making the panel cringe. But it seems that the mom confessing was also cringing at what she had done. Let's roll the videotape ....
Now as I said, I'm a co-sleeping mom, but when it comes to having sex, my husband and I do not get it on with a kid in the bed. And this doesn't mean we don't have sex. We just don't have sex in the bed. There isn't some rule where doing the naughty can only take place between the sheets, right? Why not try the couch, the shower, or the kitchen table?
If you're a parent who has done the deed with baby right there in the bed with you, then that's cool. Whatever works for your family. The baby here is just 8-weeks old and I'm sure mom and dad were super quiet. But did you notice how mama felt really uncomfortable with it all? To me, that means she should take the sex to another room. Or even the floor in the same room. Heck, why not just do it standing up against the wall. That would be hot.
For the mamas who do schtup their husbands with baby in bed, I have to admit that I'm a tad jealous. Your baby must be the best sleeper ever.
Do you think this mom crossed the line between attachment parenting and "too close for comfort" parenting?
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I too am a "naturally" minded mom, but to actually do the deed IN the SAME BED that the baby is in is just crossing the line in my opinion. SERIOSULY!?
My rule of thumb is generally this: If you wouldn't be comfortable doing it front of your mother, or with your mother doing it in front of you - don't do it in front of your child!
And couldn't the sex at least have been moved to the floor? or the baby to a bassinet? Same room is one thing, but having sex while baby is in bed with you is crossing a line to me.
Even though I personally think this is creepy and I would never do it, to each his own I guess. My main issue with this is with safety. Sometimes during sex, things shift or the baby moves. Or if things get particularly bouncy, the baby could potentially fall out of bed or you could roll on top of them. Imagine trying to live with yourself if you suffocated your baby because you had sex with them in the bed. Just by a mat or bassinet or something exclusively for the purpose of keeping them out of the bed during sex.
Good point. I think I'll steal that (if you don't mind. ;)