Co-Sleeping Mom Admits to Having Sex With Baby In Bed (VIDEO)

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sex while cosleepingAs a co-sleeping, baby-wearing, breastfeeding kind of mama, I love discussing everything involving natural parenting topics. And you know what else is natural? Sex with your husband. After having a baby and getting the all-clear from the doctor that your body is ready to resume the nookie, many of us cannot wait to get frisky.

On Coffee Shop Confessions, one mom admitted that she and her husband had sex with their 8-week-old baby right there in the bed with them, making the panel cringe. But it seems that the mom confessing was also cringing at what she had done. Let's roll the videotape ....

Now as I said, I'm a co-sleeping mom, but when it comes to having sex, my husband and I do not get it on with a kid in the bed. And this doesn't mean we don't have sex. We just don't have sex in the bed. There isn't some rule where doing the naughty can only take place between the sheets, right? Why not try the couch, the shower, or the kitchen table?

If you're a parent who has done the deed with baby right there in the bed with you, then that's cool. Whatever works for your family. The baby here is just 8-weeks old and I'm sure mom and dad were super quiet. But did you notice how mama felt really uncomfortable with it all? To me, that means she should take the sex to another room. Or even the floor in the same room. Heck, why not just do it standing up against the wall. That would be hot.

For the mamas who do schtup their husbands with baby in bed, I have to admit that I'm a tad jealous. Your baby must be the best sleeper ever.

Do you think this mom crossed the line between attachment parenting and "too close for comfort" parenting?


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nonmember avatar newmum

I understand doing it when babys newborn i would not but 8months old?? My daughter is 6 months old and vary aware even if shes asleep i wudnt feel comfertable. When do u draw the line what age is to old? What if ur still co sleeping when the kid is 3 or 4? And there in bed with u when u have sex that is disgusting and even when there asleep the noices etc isnt good for a baby to hear in there sleep it cud effect them in the long run research has prooved that

Brittany Riley

yeah we have done it with the child in the room. Not in the bed, but in the room. And she slept like a rock the whole time so go on and get over it to all the people in here talking about how it is just crazy, ya'll have done it too you just want to act like your better than someone ....geeze.

Frankie Dunham

So many comments here are just hateful. Really not a healthy society we have here. Too much taboo only creates mental illnesses born of unfounded guilt. "The Nasty" "the dirty" "the deed" as if sex is only nasty and dirty and unmentionable. If the only way you can look at sex is as something to be ashamed of then perhaps you shouldn't partake of it and the species will evolve naturally to be more open minded and less hateful.

Pieta... Pieta0227

The title of this article should be edited.  How about throwing a comma in there?!  I am sure the mom does not appreciate it sounding like she molests her infant!  COMMAS SAVE LIVES.  "Let's eat Grandma!" v. "Let's eat, Grandma!"  

I am not a grammar nazi, I usually just read past the mistakes, but this one made me shudder. 

nonmember avatar Always Right

I don't see the big deal. I mean, if the person is semi-conscious, does it really matter? I've had sex with my sleeping grandma in the room. We weren't in the same bed or anything, though. She can't hear or see well, and her memory is bad. May as well have been alone...

nonmember avatar JM89

I've done it. I see nothing wrong with it. My baby was in my belly for 9 months hearing and feeling every bit of that time so at 8 weeks what's the dang difference?? People for thousands of years have had only one room houses and they still had sex. You people are freakin ridiculous making it sound like this woman is a horrible parent.

nonmember avatar me

I really.hate the "just have sex somewhere the house" argument. I.have an 11 year old. I.can't just do it on the couch.

Ashley Ross

I co-slept with my son and had sex with my husand. My baby was asleep and safe. He slept through it every time and if he did wake up we'd stop and take care of him. there is nothing wrong with it.


Gonneke Van Veldhuizen-Staas

So where and when do you imagine all the subseqent babies are initiates in societies wher co-sleeping is the norm? Come on people, it'sjust sex

Melissa Tame

I always had a 'family bed/co-sleeping' thing in my home. I could never imagine having sex while any of my babies were in the same bed. That's just me, though... to each his own.

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