Co-Sleeping Mom Admits to Having Sex With Baby In Bed (VIDEO)

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sex while cosleepingAs a co-sleeping, baby-wearing, breastfeeding kind of mama, I love discussing everything involving natural parenting topics. And you know what else is natural? Sex with your husband. After having a baby and getting the all-clear from the doctor that your body is ready to resume the nookie, many of us cannot wait to get frisky.

On Coffee Shop Confessions, one mom admitted that she and her husband had sex with their 8-week-old baby right there in the bed with them, making the panel cringe. But it seems that the mom confessing was also cringing at what she had done. Let's roll the videotape ....



Now as I said, I'm a co-sleeping mom, but when it comes to having sex, my husband and I do not get it on with a kid in the bed. And this doesn't mean we don't have sex. We just don't have sex in the bed. There isn't some rule where doing the naughty can only take place between the sheets, right? Why not try the couch, the shower, or the kitchen table?

If you're a parent who has done the deed with baby right there in the bed with you, then that's cool. Whatever works for your family. The baby here is just 8-weeks old and I'm sure mom and dad were super quiet. But did you notice how mama felt really uncomfortable with it all? To me, that means she should take the sex to another room. Or even the floor in the same room. Heck, why not just do it standing up against the wall. That would be hot.

For the mamas who do schtup their husbands with baby in bed, I have to admit that I'm a tad jealous. Your baby must be the best sleeper ever.

Do you think this mom crossed the line between attachment parenting and "too close for comfort" parenting?

 

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HalyBug HalyBug

i dont know about this lady but i have done it once. only due to the fact that i have nowhere else to "do it". 

nonmember avatar Jadenmama

All the time! DS is 8 months and sleeps like a rock. We usually move to the foot of the bed while he's sleeping at the top. King mattress so we're pretty far. I'm not comfortable leaving him on the bed by himself though so what are ya gonna do?! Soon I expect we'll have to make some changes. He's growing up fast! But for now this feels perfectly right and natural for our family

jalaz77 jalaz77

It's part of being natural, the baby was made that way. You are all about "natural parenting topics" and this is part of nature.



I am not a co-sleeping mom, never been nor will be so it's never been a problem for us. When you choose to co-sleep this is something that has to be done. I guess I couldn't get in the mood knowing babes was right there though.

nonmember avatar JustSayin'

Its called.. Buy a bassinet.. sheesh

ImaSo... ImaSoulMom

Having sex right next to your baby has to happen? Yes, that is how they were made so you should do it in front of them? Can we just let our kids be kids and our sex lives be private?

nonmember avatar Jadenmama

All the time! DS is 8 months and sleeps like a rock. We usually move to the foot of the bed while he's sleeping at the top. King mattress so we're pretty far. I'm not comfortable leaving him on the bed by himself though so what are ya gonna do?! Soon I expect we'll have to make some changes. He's growing up fast! But for now this feels perfectly right and natural for our family

AniAngel AniAngel

How could it really be worth having if you can do it quietly enough and with so little movement that you don't wake the sleeping baby? That's either one heavy sleeper or one pointless romp IMHO.

nonmember avatar Rach

I don't even understand co-sleeping for the simple fact I never can sleep when my kids are in bed with me, what with the twisting and kicking and all, let alone the idea of having sex next to your sleeping child. Sex is a special time for the parents to be exclusively together, once you add a child to the mix, it becomes, I don't know . . . creepy?

nonmember avatar Ak

That kid went from being a future dentist/accountant/plumber to future serial killer.

nonmember avatar jenn

As a cosleeping breastfeeding mom, yes me and my husband have had sex, or at least foreplay on our king bed while our newborn slept. We usually ended up elsewhere. When your bed is the only place your baby will sleep it just happens that way and they're still oblivious. But I'd say shortly before he turned a year he was definitely more aware and "getting caught" would've felt awkward so no more.

Keeping your sex life a priority becomes a challenge after kids no matter what. I'd rather have sex with my husband with a sleeping baby in the room then no sex at all.

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