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Car Seat Alarms Won't Prevent Parents From Leaving Kids in Hot Cars

by Jeanne Sager on July 31, 2012 at 1:36 PM

car seatDid you get all excited when you saw companies were building alarms to save you from being the next mom or dad featured in a "baby left in hot car" headline? Welcome to the club. Now put away your wallets.

You don't need to buy any fancy schmancy electronic device to prevent the horror of forgetting your baby in the car on a hot (or cold) day. Good thing too ... because new research has found the possibly well-intentioned products being picked up by very well-meaning parents aren't worth the money. Sorry folks, but it's true.

The researchers who looked at car seat sensors including the ChildMinder Smart Pad System, the Deluxe Padded Safety Seat Alarm System, and SafeBABI found a load of "inconsistencies." Cellphones got in the way. The devices would turn themselves on or off. A liquid spill would cause a malfunction.

I could go on, but you get the picture. If you're looking for fail-safe, these aren't going to help you. Actually, if you're looking for fail-safe, never going out in a car with your baby is probably your only option because LIFE HAPPENS. Very good parents have had this happen to them, and it could happen to anyone. 

Fortunately, there ARE some things you can do, easily, and without breaking the bank, to help keep yourself on the ball:

1. Put your purse or wallet in the backseat. We have a tendency to put these beside us, so we can grab and go. But if they're in the backseat beside the baby, "grab and go" isn't going to happen.

2. Store something large in the carseat and move it to the front seat when baby's buckled in. That visual reminder right next to you is hard to ignore even when you're frazzled. Make sure it's something big enough to notice, and some bright colors don't hurt. This is a good use for that ugly fuchsia stuffed mouse that Great Aunt Betsy made.

3. Set up a regular phone call system with your daycare provider. Often the "baby left in hot car" tragedies seem to happen when a parent varies their routine to take a child to daycare for their partner. A daycare provider who knows to call if the baby hasn't arrived by a certain time can avert tragedy.

4. Hang something from your rear view mirror when baby is in the backseat. Another visual reminder, this works well if you make a routine: hang it up after you strap in baby; remove it and stow it in your console when you remove baby. One of those dangly baby toys from the stroller works good for this.

What are your tricks for making sure you don't make a tragic mistake with your sleeping baby?

 

Image via Brent D Payne/Flickr

Filed Under: baby gear, car seat safety

Comments

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  • Pinkmani
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    Pinkmani

    July 31, 2012 at 1:58 PM

    What about talking, singing, asking questions like, "Can you spell this? What color is that?". I always check the back seat and the trunk (I have an SUV)  to see if I'm forgetting something. 


  • Mal
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    Mal

    July 31, 2012 at 2:15 PM
    Definitely turning off the radio and cell phone off when baby in the car helps. It's just a distraction. If the child is in the car talk to them. Or if you want music, only play children's music when the child is in the car.
  • Shelly
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    Shelly

    July 31, 2012 at 2:20 PM
    Yes, you're right. Alarms don't prevent stupidity. Seriously, there is nothing I have to DO to remember my child.
  • PonyC...
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    PonyChaser

    July 31, 2012 at 2:38 PM

    It boggles my mind that people need tricks to remember that they have a child in the car. Maybe it's because I didn't have the added stress of a "pay job" when my guy was a baby, and my job was ONLY 'being mom', but I just don't get how people can forget their kids in the car... but they won't forget a purse or a briefcase.


  • Saphi...
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    SaphireLizbeth

    July 31, 2012 at 2:39 PM
    I have a baby mirror for my son who is rear facing and I can see him in my rear view mirror plus I can see my other 2 kids who are forward facing in their carseats when I look in my rear view mirror as well. Since I'm always checking all my mirrors I can always see where they are so it would be very difficult for me to leave them in the car
  • Rose...
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    Rose Savoie

    July 31, 2012 at 2:43 PM

    holy judgemental people on here.  It is SOO easy to forget your kid in the car.  All it takes is a slight change in routine to throw you off and forget that you have your kid with you.  It happened to me once.  I was planning to go to my friends house sans kids, but the baby woke up just I was walking out the door, so my husband convinced me to grab her and bring her with me.  When I got to my friends house I was still so focued on my kid free trip that I just forget I had actually brought her with me.  Thankfully I was only inside her house for about 30 seconds when her kids started asking where the baby was, so I went back and got her, but that is just oe example to show how easy it is to forget. 


  • PonyC...
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    PonyChaser

    July 31, 2012 at 2:47 PM

    Perhaps we should be just a little judgemental when people "forget" and cause others to DIE. I'm sorry, but a baby is FAR more important than a purse, and yet, the author is saying that putting your purse in the back seat with the baby is a way to remember baby??? Seems to me, it should be the other way around.

    It also tells me that, if I'm too busy to remember the MOST IMPORTANT THING IN MY LIFE, then something needs to be done about my busy schedule. I need to slow down and re-prioritize things. No job - I don't care how "important" it is - is worth the life of my child.


  • Tigerese
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    Tigerese

    July 31, 2012 at 3:00 PM
    I agree with PonyChaser. Trying to blame being overwhelmed when killing your child doesn't fly. No one is that busy! You remember your purse but forget your baby? Get out of here with that nonsense.
  • Shelly
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    Shelly

    July 31, 2012 at 3:00 PM
    Rose - would you not agree what you did was a STUPID mistake? I'm sorry, leaving a child in the car is STUPID. I'm glad your did remember your child...umm, after people ASKED about it. Geez.
  • Mocha...
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    MochaCocoaBean

    July 31, 2012 at 3:08 PM

    There is an excellent article from the Washington Post about forgetting children in cars...it can happen to anyone and the first step is realizing this. YES IT CAN HAPPEN. YES IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. It happened, literally, to a rocket scientist, a military veteran, an engineer...the list goes on. Because life happens and your mind and memory have natural gaps. I believe the article mentions swiss cheese...image your mind is layer upon layer of swiss cheese. Even 10 layers deep, under the right/wrong circumstances, a hole might exist.

    I always keep my son's day bag in the front seat with my purse. The bag goes with him. If the bag is in the car, he is in the car.


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